Somebody slap some sense on me...

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  1. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    Made another thread about this.
    In short, I like one girl in one of my class. I was sitting on the other side of the room and crossed the whole room to sit next to her. The only thing I do, is engage on small talk, the usual stuff.

    Still, she seems shy or maybe she is not into me at all.

    Should I just ask her for coffee or something. Too soon?
     
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    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    If she says no, she says no. World keeps turning you keep living :)

    Go for it, you will kick yourself if you don't try
     
  4. Potski

    Potski what?

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    It's never too soon

    Don't miss the window
     
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    Emfuser Nuclear Moderator Super Moderator

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    This is the best advice in the thread.
     
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    which is worse:

    the sting of rejection

    or looking back on this years from now with the regret of doing nothing because you were scared
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    No you didnt. :squint:
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Ask her out already. If she says no you can move on with your life. The longer you wait the more you build her up in your head and waste time because chances are she either has a boyfriend or doesn't like you. So stop stressing so much over one girl and ask her out already. Going to get a coffee and talk does not require you two knowing each other for months or years.
     
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    You'll never know unless you put yourself out there...
     
  11. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    All of you are right in the sense to act quick, which is what I am trying to do. The reason for this is that I've felt a lil bit of that nasty stress and I'd rather get out quick of it.

    I'll ask her what is she doing after class and chat with her after class; the next time I see her.
     

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