Its taken me a few days to realize several things that have happened over the last few weeks 1. I want a kid! They are AMAZING in a way nothing else even comes close. It doesnt have to be any time soon.... 2. You dont need to understand everything. Accepting things makes you stronger, questioning things makes you weaker. 3. Some things are worth fighting for! but too much fighting is a sign youve failed. 4. If something feels really good, it has the potential to feel really bad. Those phone calls you once loved waiting for may become the worst part of your day when you spend hours watching your phone waiting to see if someone called. 5. Letting people into your life gives you unbelievable possibilities. 6. Its probably better to have a best friend and a girl friend who arent the same person. Spread the risk of losing one or the other. 7. Being a single mom must be one of the hardest things in the world. I respect these ladies enourmously! 8. Money isnt important as long as your confortable. Great people make you forget your money problems and appreciate the things you do have! On the other side of the coin pay people what you owe them when you say you will pay them. Its the right thing to do. 9. Work wont make you happy and working from home leaves you with an odd feeling of being all alone 10. When friendships are tested you might not want to see the results. People you think are your friends will disapoint you at the time you need them most. 11. We wach have the ability to control our own destiny. Those who fail to realize this waste the chance to change sculpt their own world!