SRS Some people are too stubborn for their own good.

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  1. misha

    misha New Member

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    I'ev been seeing this girl for 2 months now. things have been going good. Last Sat we went to dinner and for some unspoken reason parted on not the best of terms.

    Now due to our stubbornness and unwillingness to be the first one to break silence we haven't spoken in 5 days. :ugh:
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Tell us what was said that left you both on bad terms.
     
  3. DaFreak963

    DaFreak963 New Member

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    Stop fucking around and talk to her. i used to make this mistake, it wont help the situation and it'll set a poor standard for the future
     
  4. misha

    misha New Member

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    im not calling. she can call me.
     
  5. misha

    misha New Member

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    nothing really was said. i think she might have been a bit unhappy wth my driving, and i was mad that she went to bed after dinner instead of hanging out. So i was determined not to call her, and i guess shes determined not to call me.
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Well I guess congrats on learning how to successfully communicate in a relationship.

    You obviously don't care about her very much, so no loss.
     
  7. michael

    michael FLORIDA > *

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    If you cared, you'd pick up the phone.

    There's no problem with you not caring or wanted to talk to her..but you can't complain about it - you can't have it both ways.
     
  8. KatWoman

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    Don't get married.
     
  9. 04JETTA

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    thread title describes you perfectly may want to look up the word Communication
     
  10. misha

    misha New Member

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    im not complaining. i was just making an observation. how one slight thing can completely ruin the relationship of 2 people.
     
  11. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    It's not one slight thing, you are just not into her enough to stop being stubborn and call her :dunno:
     
  12. Darketernal

    Darketernal Watch: Aria The Origination =)

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    In time you will understand that instead of fighting against the other person, you should actually 'work together to solve the problem'

    I know it unfortunatly all too well. And as others said its a mistake. Because nothing good comes from pride, its as good as worthless because you are putting your life on a halt and won't do a thing to solve the situation. because you are too proud to make that first step, making you feel you will be damaged and lose face.

    My advice:

    To each their own opinion, if she doesn't agree with it, fine just leave it at that. If there is a problem, work together to solve it instead of fighting the people who need to solve the problem, or in other words, play on the ball, not on the players, remember that well in a case that your pride shows up again.
     
  13. MattThom01

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    I'm gonna assume you both are young, immature, don't care about the relationship, or a combination of the three.

    If you're playing stupid games like "she can call me, I'm not gonna call her", the relationship wouldn't last long anyways.

    Enjoy being single.
     
  14. Mr. Pelham

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    So you were driving wrecklessly which got her annoyed, went to bed early instead of putting out which in turn chapped your ass.

    Find a new squeeze.
     
  15. misha

    misha New Member

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    i think its true that if neither of us is willing to back down first, we are just not that into each other.

    oh well.
     
  16. DAD DICK

    DAD DICK MAKE AMERICA GROPE AGAIN OT Supporter

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    I've learned that many times the other party saw something completely different than what you thought they saw. It's worth talking about if you care about her, you may be like "oh, holy shit, sorry, I had no idea that's what you thought at all." etc..it's happened with me and my gf of 5 years many times..
     
  17. Lazy D.

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    I remember something similar happened to me, we haven't seen each other for almost 5 years, but then we got married.

    How old are you ? Such things are usually a sign of immaturity.
     

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