FRK Some of the regulars at my bar are....

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  1. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    Transvestites Mid Op.

    She's an awesome person. Really cool chick.

    Tonight she brought in one of her friends. Post op.

    The friend apparently took a liking to me.


    Normal conversation for the most part. Asked to see my tattoos, whatever.
    The regular asks me to take down her number while I'm closing up the bar. I tell her i'm working and go about my business. So she goes on her own and gives my number to her friend.

    I start getting txts. Sends me a pic of her. Why? I dunno.

    I get the txt as I'm finishing up closing. I open the txt its a picture msg. I open it and its just a face shot. Me being my sarcastic self I said I was disappointed that I thought it would be a dirty pic. She starts sayin she has the pics but isn't gonna send them. I told her "OK" and walked away to continue the finishing touches of closing the bar and hangin out with my co-workers.

    Whatever I don't get anymore txts but they keep tellin me to check my phone. I got nothing. The regular comes to say her goodbye's like normal no problem. Her friend comes up asks when I work. I told her my schedule. She tells me she will be seeing me again I welcome her to do so.

    On my walk to the car i get the 2nd pic they were tryin to send me. The friend in a bathtub, not full frontal but you can see the edge of the nipple.

    I ignore it.

    15 min later I'm almost home i get a call form my regular. She asks what I thought of her friend. I told her she seemed like a nice person.

    She asked if I liked her, I told her she seems nice. She replies that her friend likes me. I asked "How? She just met me." She says you know she finds you attractive. I say "Thank you. I'm very flattered"

    She asks if I'll call her. I told her no. She asked why. I told her the truth. I don't call anyone really. She asked if she can call me. I asked for what? She said so we can go on a date.

    I told her "as curious of an individual as I am, I don't think thats my flavor." She asks what that meant. I told her it was pretty cut and dry. To which she replied "She doesn't have a penis! She's just like a girl!" I said "Really?! Can she make babies?!?" She replies "no". I said "ok then"

    Then she apologizes for making me uncomfortable. I tell her I'm not in the least. I just dunno what she expected. I try to be a bit of a hermit. If i'm not at home I'm at the gym if i'm not at the gym I'm at work and if I'm not at work I'm asleep. I hang out very little.

    She said "well what do I tell her?" I said " I dunno. She's your friend and I'm too blunt for my own good and people are sensative!"

    So she replies to me "I'll just tell her to call you so you 2 can hang out." To which I uncharacteristically reply "WHAT!?! How did we get to that conclusion!?!?" She says "as friends" I tell her "I don't hang out! I work, go to the gym and sleep. thats about it! If I hang out its not often."

    Again she asks "what do I tell her?" I told her to tell her exactly what I said "she seems really nice but as curious as i am thats not my flavor."

    she apologizes for upsetting me (which she didn't) and that she will see me the next day I work.

    So should I have been offended or bothered? Obviously its not a normal comfort zone but I don't even know.

    FS crew....opinions?


    CLIFFS: Mid-op tranny at bar wants me to hook up with her post op friend and is tryin to almost forcefully make it happen.
     
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  2. spankaveli

    spankaveli OT Supporter

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    Tell her you want bitches that were bitches from the womb. :o
     
  3. Monstrddg

    Monstrddg New Member

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    I don’t care mid op or whatever the hell, if you do it you’re a queer.
    You shouldn’t need any more motivation than that. Hell, just considering it makes me wonder about you already...
     
  4. Lovely Atlantis

    Lovely Atlantis Luscious Lovely Lady!

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    Well I think you handled it quite well with them. You tried to be as respectful and polite as possible. I don't think there is anything further you can do. If they keep trying to push it just repeat what you've already said "I'm sorry, I'm just not interested" or something like that.
     
  5. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    :rolleyes: Someone is definitely not a homophobe.

    Vulgar I think you handled it well and if she directly asks you at a bar I'd give the "not my flavour" response. It's not rude and gets the point across perfectly.
     
  6. sportsjunkie

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    i think you handled it the right way. I don't understand why your friend was being really pushy about hanging out with the "post-op" really.

    you shouldn't feel offended nor bothered. I'm sure there are trannies, gays, etc. who want you :mamoru:
     
  7. TigreTek

    TigreTek omega member OT Supporter

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    yes, that makes perfect sense. :rolleyes:
     
  8. HouseLing

    HouseLing When masturbations lost its fun you'r fucking lazy

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    i think you handled it pretty good.
     
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    JoJoBee Hanging out with my chicks! OT Supporter

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    tell her you're taken.
     
  10. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    Who might I be taken by? Any ideas?



    The regular knows I'm not. She's in there everyday.

    I was thinkin that I'd say I only date jewish girls.
     
  11. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    hook me up with the one with a penis!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
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    HouseLing When masturbations lost its fun you'r fucking lazy

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    why not just say the same thing? your flattered but your not interested?
     
  13. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    She's dating another regular.
     
  14. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    Here's what i think might have gotten me in this predicament. I've always had friends that were gay and it never phased me. I never even batted an eyelash when dealing with her in the bar.

    While in college i had some gay dudes come onto me because as they explained "you weren't weirded out, so i figured you were into it" they were corrected.

    Everyone knows I'm open minded and intrigued by things i don't fully understand and fulling accepting of most people's life decisions.

    Could this have been confused with interest?
     
  15. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    awww. poo
     
  16. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    yes.
     
  17. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    BLAST!!!

    Whats the deal with that?
     
  18. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    it's a error in thinking, If you aren't against it, you must be into it. most people work in full black and white instead of a spectrum of greys.
     
  19. sportsjunkie

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    what are asking really? you say you are cool with it and everything and that you are open with gays and yada yada yada...so it's only natural that some gays, trannies or whomever may be interested in you.

    so what does it matter how you got in this predicament?
     
  20. twistid

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    1 of my ex's had only male friends who were gay, and after we broke up i was still friends with some of her friends... they knew i wasn't interested, and they knew i was not judgemental towards them... they never hit on me, but some of their friends would... i would just say that i was flattered, but it's not how i swing... some found it weird a straight man could hang out around gays, and not be gay.
     
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    if it wasnt for the sex, i could be gay. Then your just hanging out with your buddy's :dunno: :p
     
  22. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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  23. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    Definitely and I have had the same (with guys, not pre/post-op as I don't think I've ever been around any :dunno:). I just let them know on which side of the fence I stand and everything is all good. I'm not really uncomfortable that they may come onto me, it's just not my thing.
     
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    Wolf No one plans to take the path that brings you lowe

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    God, you're dumb. :ugh:
     
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    Wolf No one plans to take the path that brings you lowe

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    All you gotta do is tell her "No thanks, I'm not really interested." Just make that clear, you don't have to give any further explanation other than "she's just not my type".
     

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