Some good advice about failed love

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    http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/somebodies-and-nobodies/200909/love-unrequited-not-barren

    I'm realizing this more and more every day as I move past my last relationship.
     
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    jackjohnson simple as something nobody knows OT Supporter

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    :hs: I really wish I knew what it gave us though
     
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    thick skin and a backbone?
     
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    jackjohnson simple as something nobody knows OT Supporter

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    well I guess once the bitterness and heartbreak goes away it taught me a lot of really good lessons :dunno:
     
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    If nothing else, you learn what you DONT want
     
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    Unless she was the one to end it and you still compare new girls you meet to the one that broke up with you. It reinforces that you DO know what you want, it just doesn't want you back. :hs:
     
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    No, then she's not the person you want if she's unable to recognize and return the love. How can someone who doesn't want you be thr right person for you? You deserve someone who will love you back as much as you love her. Being in love isn't a one-way street. Infatuation can be, however
     

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