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  1. AV8R

    AV8R Parked at OT's Gate #1

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    hey i prob shouldnt be on here since its my SO's but i need some good advice. i have been with my SO for almost 2 years and i love him so much but i get jealous when he is around other girls and even though he has NEVER hurt or even hinted at hurting me i find it hard at times to trust him. this really only started after we moved to another province.....any suggestions?
     
  2. RedVsBlue

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    nothing wrong with jealousy...as long as you trust him. You can still be jealous when he is around other girls, just dont let the jealousy eat away at you.
     
  3. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    Yup, and if you do start getting jealous and trying to stop him seeing girls that would probably backfire on you.

    If he has given you no reason not to trust him, you just gotta let him do his thing imo.
     
  4. purplebeast

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    Are u using his login to post? Fucking subtle. I would kick u to the curb just for invading my privacy you crazy heffer.
     
  5. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Why are you not permabanned yet? :gtfo:
     
  6. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Sounds to me like you just need to get over your own insecurities about it; if he isn't giving you reason to doubt him, don't doubt him. It's just that simple.
     
  7. C4172

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    Go have a girl's night out if he's spending his time with other friends...regardless if they're girls or guys. Get your mind off of it. Heck, hang out with some other guy friends of yours! Just don't do anything that you would regret out of your jealousy.
     
  8. purplebeast

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    Cuz Im too sexy.
     
  9. rkf76

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    jealousy has got to be the most worthless emotion known to man. It's good for nothing, there isn't a single positive thing about it.

    Sounds to me like you have some self esteem issues, deal with them and watch your jealousy issues vanish.
     
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    jealous- unduly suspicious or fearful

    how can you be jealous of your s/o but at the same time trust him/her? don't you think that's quite the contradiction? If you trust your s/o then there would be no jealousy no matter the situation.
     
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