I'm writing this post in response to a question a friend asked me. I'll repharse his question to a statement: "I went out with this woman, she has no social life, and doesn't have any friends. I found this out during the date. Instant Turn-off. I left the date on a dead note, I wasn't interested and made it clear to her. Since the date she has called me 5 times in two days. The more she calls, the fact I had 0 interest to begin with, the more she makes me sick. I lost any interest I had to keep her as a friend." This is a statement from a guy, guys take notes. This guy goes out with a girl who has no life and that turns him off. The same is true about women related to guys. Having no social life makes you desperate for a woman's attention, or anyones for that matter. The more of a social circle you have, the less attention you care to have from a woman on a date. The same holds true for a woman, if you guys don't see it, a woman doesn't need a guys attention if she has a ton of guys vying for hers, or a lot of female friends who give her the attention she needs. This needs to be the same for a guy. Having a lot of guy friends gives you the attention you need, so when you go out with a woman you are not vying for her attention. She doesn't see you as desperate and then she becomes interested. Now back to that girl, most socially connected women if not all don't call a guy they went on a date with 5 times in the following 2 days. It is turning a guy off and this is in turn will do the same to a woman. This is a very important thing to watch, so when a guy has a small social circle, he will behave the same way that that woman is behaving with my friend. So guys, have a strong social circle of friends, so you are not lacking in attention at any moment.