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  1. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    Take this lightly and then go and make a big fuss about it. Anyways, I contacted this girl online over some dating site. First I got her email, and then her phone number. I thought it was fake but never checked it.

    The other day, we chatted over on meebo and she told me to text her, which i did and thus proved that the number was indeed real.

    Keep in mind, I've never met this girl aside from online.

    So...point of the thread, I sent her a text telling her to let me know when she comes back around here so we can go out. She didn't reply to this message. :o

    But prior to this message, we were sort of texting already.

    Should I take this as a hint of no. :dunno:
     
  2. Havsie

    Havsie When I die, bury me inside the Pepsi 1893 store OT Supporter

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  3. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    uh?
     
  4. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    Of course. I have nothing with her. I was just letting her know.
     
  5. ASoT

    ASoT New Member

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    How long has it been since you sent the message?
     
  6. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    Last night.
     
  7. lauren

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    you dont really know it's her real number till she responds, do you?
     
  8. forgotmyname

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    No, I do. Like I said, we exchanged a few text messages and then when i told her to remind me when she comes back around here so we can go out, she didn't reply me back. Actually that was two nights ago. I should probably forget it, or maybe ask her casually a few weeks later.

    Its not like I am planning on going there soon. I just wanted to test her by getting an answer.
     
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    i guess i don't know what meebo is? you text on your phones, and she responded on her phone?
     
  10. Viper

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    I think meebo is like the incredibly gay version of myspace.
     
  11. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    Meebo is a place in which you can use msn, aim or yahoo messenger without having to download the programs. Its like Trillian but embedded onto a site.
     
  12. giz

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    maybe she's waiting until she is back, from wherever she is?

    ever actually talk to her?
     
  13. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    Look, save yourself a lot of time, and just forget it and move on. Apply this to future relationships also, if you're in a position where everything is left up in the air like this, then its not worth it.
     
  14. CorpseStreet

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    Maybe she was busy or she is the type that doesn't respond to a text unless they have something good to say?
     
  15. giz

    giz Active Member

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    good point. I try to call over text for this very reason.There have also been times when my CALLS didn't go through! If I need to get a hold of her and she doesn't answer, sometimes I'll send a txt right after saying "answer your phone!" and half the time she'll call right back.
     
  16. Spaceering

    Spaceering I bite.

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    I would agree with MCohen here. Especially with internet dating, where thousands of people could just come up anytime. People lose interest quick and are too afraid to be nice and just flat out tell you, "sorry but someone else came up"


    it is really obvious that they lost interest if: at first they are responding really quick, then suddenly it takes them a week, or even a couple of months to respond.
     
  17. Yail Bloor

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    you seem desperate
     
  18. forgotmyname

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    why?:ugh:
     

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