What now? A lot of emphasis is placed on "how to obtain" a girlfriend. What do you do after you've become a couple for a long period of time? How do you keep the interest? My experience/perspective: I still try to keep things relatively fresh and new. I have my own hobbies and activities I like to do (ice/roller hockey, snowboarding, hanging out with my friends with no girlfriends around, etc). You still need to have time to yourself and pursue your own goals and interests. My girlfriend and I go out occasionally to bars with mutual friends, go ice skating, go for walks, play frisbee golf - anything different. We'll even stay in for nice evenings together. The interest is definitely still there, but what about after one year, two years, four years, etc.? What do you do with your significant other? Does everything fall into place and you don't think about "thrilling" her (or him) as much? Women of the Vag, please feel free to chime in too. I'm interested in your perspective as well.