So you REALLY enjoy the sex that much more if the chick is hot?

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  1. antihero

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    Ok, ive been reading it for years and I've never understood it.

    From what I gather most of the guys in here would always rather have sex with a very pretty girl then an average girl, and definitely always no matter what have sex with a pretty girl then a less then average girl, because you actually enjoy it that way more.

    For me the quality of the sex is equally as important as the hotness of the women. Id honestly probably take a girl who was a 6 on the looks scale and an 8 on the good in bed scale for JUST SEX over a girl who was an 8 on the looks scale and a 6 on the good in bed scale. My attraction to very attractive women is primarily linked to my love of having a flashy attention grabbing status symbol on my arm, and im not really obsessed enough with that to not find everyones "shes gotta be gorgeous or im not even interested" attitude weird.

    To me a 9 who is a 4 in the sack, is better than a 6 who is a 7 in the sack only if I get to show off the 9 a lot. If its going to be just sex, then id really rather have the 6.

    If we were talking about stuck on a desert island with nothing but a lifetime supply of astroglide and 1 woman, i'd rather have an attractive women who was great at sex then a gorgeous woman who was average at best.

    Stuck on a desert island, as the last two people to ever walk the earth, how important would beauty vs quality of sex be to you?

    no poll, cause you fuckers are atrociously bad at them.

    Am I just a weirdo because all the best sex ive had has not been with the hottest women ive had? You guys are telling me you've never left a beautiful womans bed and been like "Well... that was a huge disapointment" or left a not so hot womans bed and been like "wow. that was awesome. hope nobody saw me slip out the back with her :bowrofl:"
     
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    All else being equal, a hotter chick is more fun to fuck.

    That being said, it's not always a linear relationship between how hot the chicks I've fucked have been and how good they were in bed.
     
  3. antihero

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    Nobody is disputing that all else being equal, prettier is better. What im asking is if you accept or reject the idea that having sex with a woman who is not your ideal, or close to it, but who is fantastic in bed can make the overall experience more entertaining then a pretty mediocre romp with a pretty girl.

    I'm not saying there is any correlation between hotness and quality of sex. Lets for the sake of (no) argument assume a completely random distribution.
     
  4. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    But you can teach the hot chick to have better sex :eek3:
     
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    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    I do agree though. Had a cute 18 year old and she didn't know how to do anything, was boring, not really into it, etc... = FAIL.

    All she knew was get into doggy (which was fucking HOT) but anything else? meh.
     
  6. antihero

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    lets just say you cant. Its a one week stand. your are going to be having a lot of sex, but you aren't going to be able to teach anything. Not to mention you can't teach a good vagina from a lot of very very important stand points. Does it feel awesome? Can she have vaginal O's? more often then not, good luck teaching those.
     
  7. lawngn0me

    lawngn0me In every wish and dream and happy home, you will f

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    I do much prefer to have sex with the more average "innocent" girls than the "ZOMG HOT" girls because the sex is usually so much better. The average looking girls who look "innocent" are generally huge freaks in bed which is a lot more fun and truly betters the experience.

    Those chicks who are totally hot but all they do is lay there, well... they can just gtfo.
     
  8. MossMan813

    MossMan813 New Member

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    If it's just sex, then yes, you want the hottest ass you can pull.

    If you're trying to actually establish a relationship with someone, then it doesn't matter as much since you connect on a level that is not just physical.
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Considering the fact that we are visual creatures, yes, I absolutely prefer a better looking woman over one that is supposedly skilled. Ultimately I feel as though I'm responsible for my own pleasure in the sack and I enjoy it more if she's hot. Case and point? I cum a fuck load faster when I'm masturbating to hot chicks. And that's without getting into a debate over what you consider "good" in bed to mean.

    And we do just fine with polls when the polls are written well.
     
  10. lawngn0me

    lawngn0me In every wish and dream and happy home, you will f

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    For me, sex is a 2 way street. That bitch needs to know what she's doing if she expects me to cum in her mouth or on her face. Yeah, they are usually more visually appealing, but she needs to have the skills to back it up.

    Seriously, if a chick is just going to lay there, I really can't cum. She needs to get into it and MAKE me cum.
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Yeah, I'm not like that at all. I couldn't care less about supposed "skill" in bed. Willingness is all I need. I can provide the rest. So long as the chick is present in more ways that just physically. I don't really believe in skill. I can tell a chick what I like. She doesn't have to know shit as long as she can follow instructions, which in my experience is the same thing as willingness.
     
  12. lawngn0me

    lawngn0me In every wish and dream and happy home, you will f

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    lets just put it this way. i was with some chick recently who did everything i told her to do. the only problem was that she just laid there like a dead fish. didn't make any noise. it was like "wtf. if i'm going to fuck you stupid, you can at least moan a little bit". needless to say, i kicked her out.
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    If she was willing to do anything you told her to do then why not tell her to move around like you wanted her to move? :hsugh:
     
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    You're doing it wrong.
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    :roflw:
     
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    its just not the same. Im completely out on your way. I want the girl to be at least nearly as fired up as I am. I get very very fired up.

    Honestly, don't you think its a little weird that you just compared fucking a real person to looking a picture of a person, in this context? I'm not going to go all psychologist on you, but its a hard not to notice that someone who thinks appearance is all that matters would compare sex to porno when we are actually talking about sex with two real live participants.


    :rofl: I'm assuming you are joking. good joke. :bigthumb:
     
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    you guys are the ones that cant see any advantage to a woman from a real doll.... maybe you guys are doing it wrong? :dunno:
     
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    1. I was trying to avoid getting into a debate on what counts as "good" in bed, but without defining it we seem to be confusing the issue. First you describe it as skill and yet now you are talking about enthusiasm. I don't need a girl to be all that enthusiastic. In fact, I think too much enthusiasm comes off as annoying. I'm not looking for someone to put on a performance for me, I'm looking for someone to have sex with.

    2. I compared sex to masturbating to illustrate the point that we are visual creatures. What is pornography if not a prime example that sexual pleasure comes in large part from our visual senses? And you couldn't get psychological on me if you tried. Trust me, pal, I know my issues and you're not even close to touching on any of them. :rofl:

    And no, I'm not joking about polls. There are tons of polls that work just fine on this forum. The only ones that don't are the ones that are filled with ambiguity or contain only loaded answers.
     
  19. Pounce

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    This, and everything else you've said- :roflw:

    liar2, were you making noise as well, or were you just expecting her to make enough for the both of you? Are you sure she was even enjoying herself enough to want to moan in the first place? Or have you just watched so much porn you now expect all girls to be moaning nonstop?


    What I want to know is how much bragging factors into it - like if you couldn't tell anyone about what a HOT chick you banged, or if no one else would ever know that you banged someone kinda average-looking - would that make a difference in how you rate the sex?
     
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    :eek3: im going to have to sleep on that and get back to you tomorrow. consider my mind blown.
     
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    Ever consider it's you?
     
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    edit: endofpaged :madfawk:
     
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    anti, you're the man for the post :bowdown:
     

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