That she really likes you, but is afraid of being committed to you because she feels it could last a long time and she's not ready for something like that, how do you take that? I do give her respect for being honest in telling me that if we were together right now she'd probably end up cheating on me, though. If it matters, I've known this girl for about 6 years, just started talking to her again after 2 years in the past month or so. And if anything needs clarification that's not a problem, I just didn't feel like typing up a novel. EDIT: Guess I should add that she's currently torn between me and another guy, although she readily admits that said other guy probably isn't a good idea. I know, I know, low interest, move on... but I feel like as long as she's being honest and upfront with me, and as long as I still have fun and go out with other girls for the time being, giving her a little time to get her shit together can't be all bad.