...after only 3 days of telling my g/f that I can't be with her, she has a date lined up already for this Sunday? (She tells me she is going with a bunch of her friends along with this guy - That kind of made me feel better but still upset nonetheless). The reason was family/cultural/religious clash that I just knew wouldn't work out in the end so I wanted to avoid the heartache and time and just let her know it wasn't gonna work. It was almost like my family kind of pressured me into doing this (my family never spoke about it just made the situation really uncomfortable - kinda hard to describe in too few words). I mean, I could have lied and made up some silly excuse but I owed it to her because I wanted to at least remain friends once everything cools down. I almost think sooner or later she will break down, but I kind of have faith that she has gotten stronger emotionally while with me and she'll overcome this with pride. Discuss... Cliffs: Broke up with g/f because I felt indirect pressure from my family about the whole interracial situation. She was asked out on a date 3 days after I broke up and she accepted. It's not a date date, but as she tells me she is going with a bunch of friends so it isn't anything serious.