so what do i do...

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  1. aznh2oman

    aznh2oman OT Supporter

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    ive known this girl for about 5 years. we have gotten really close. at first im fine with just being friends cuz i had someone else. im single now but she has a bf but she frequently hangs out with me and sleeps over at my place. everytime that she sleeps over or we hang out i start to like her more and more. honestly im not the type that would ruin her relationship with her bf and her relationship wit me..she is my friend for a long time. what do you think i should do? i tried to not answer her calls for a week and when i did answer she was almost crying saying that she missed me...
     
  2. Nsx9red

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    i was just in that spot, i just let things go with the flow, and we started dating.. i think it's best not to push anything
     
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    sounds really weird. why is she with that other guy? you sound more like a boyfriend than he does.


    maybe just be really honest and tell her your feelings? you'll prolly get with her.
     
  4. mina

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    Is her name Polyamory?
     
  5. aznh2oman

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    yea its getting weird for me.. i goto school like 2 hrs away so i occasionally go back home and almost everytime she wants to hang out and occasionally sleeps over...

    i dunno why she is with the other guy.. it might be because her old bf was a piece of shit..but the current bf is a good guy.. met him a couple times... she says they have an open relationship.

    the thing is, if i get in a relationship with her im going to be so far and will only be able to see her like once a week if im lucky. i think she would be more happier with the current bf. when im done with college in a year then its a different story.

    well i dunno about the loving but not sexual yet...
     
  6. I Pwn Noobs

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    just keep it like it is. go with the flow like Nsx9red said
     
  7. nonstercae

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    I could see how this relationship is bothering you, but in the long run, I really would be more concerned over you lack of grammar skills. After all, that is what will keep you from doing well in life.
     
  8. aznh2oman

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    :gtfo2: your stupid comments are not welcomed here. im not writing a research paper... im just asking for advice of what to do in this situation.. if i thought that my grammar is hindering me from living life to the fullest then ill make a thread on that and you are welcomed to post ur 3rd post there...
     
  9. aznh2oman

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    i guess ill just let it ride... dont stop a good thing eh?
     
  10. Nsx9red

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    well i started to like the girl which seems to be happening in your case, so be careful, not many go to the friends zone to lovers like me, but i still got hurt along the way, so if you feel you like her alot back down or get hurt.but i say take a chance only live once..
     

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