So what about the flirty chicks who give IOIs to everyone?

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  1. Falconer

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    You go out with her, you're having a good time, she's totally into you and giving you tons of IOIs, so you try to kiss her or something and she gets all pissed like "uh, wtf are you doing?"

    It turns out she's "just like that" and "didn't mean anything by it."
     
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  3. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    A lot of girls, my best friend for example, really like male attention but don't actually want anything from the guys. Anytime she's around a guy she goes into flirt mode. It's almost like she like to prove to herself that she can get any given guy interested whether she actually wants him or not. Not all girls are like that though, thank God.
     
  4. Falconer

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    I hate chicks like that. It's like the girls who get breast implants and wear lowcut shirts and then bitch when guys stare. Make up your mind and act accordingly*.






    *Whoops, sorry, that statement was a logical conclusion and therefore we can't apply it to women.
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I'm a really fun, open, and flirty persoin with absolutely everyone I meet. I'm sure I have misled many guys in my past who didn't know better :dunno: Oh well.
     
  6. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    I will agree almost 100% with your statement about breast implants. Many girls get them for more attention, and then try to act all high and mighty when a guy is rude and stares. But still, a girl wearing a low cut shirt is no excuse to openly stare. It's creepy.
     
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    There are also girls that do it to get stuff out of men. I have a few girlfriends that intentionally drape themselves off of guys at the bar to get free drinks/etc. But the second they try something the girls just laugh
     
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    you don't give her a second date
     
  9. djshotglass

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    Yes it is. If you don't want people looking at them, cover em up!
     
  10. I don't want to explain the dynamic behind this, but it's easy to get a free drink this way. :bowdown:
     
  11. antihero

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    withdraw attention as soon as you realize they are wasting your time. typically since you go from paying a ton of attention to paying them no attention they get confused because they don't know that you just realized they were wasting your time. They will then try to get it back. Make em work for it.

    basically you want to show them extreme and obvious disinterest. The reason they flirt with everyone is because they fear that they are not desireable, interesting, or special.
     
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    Wasn't I the one that told you how to get a free drink this way? :confused:
     
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    My ex used to always flirt with guys and hafl the time didn't even realize it... that is just how she is. A lot of other people notice it, and even tell her, but she doesn't notice it.

    She will flirt with a guy, lead them on, and then when they ask her out or try to put the moves on her she is like "WTF, I am not interested".

    That shit will mess with your mind.
     
  14. Falconer

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    Share please?
     
  15. Falconer

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    BS. That's an excuse women use because they don't want to say "yeah, I like to flirt."
     
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    That's probably the answer to this question. IT IS FUN TO FLIRT. Especially when you know you are flirting just to flirt, and don't give a damn about it.
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I don't know man....like I mentioned before. I am super friendly to everyone I meet and apparently it comes off as very flirty :dunno: I do it to women and guys I'm not even attracted to. I grew up in a Spanish household too, so I'm extremely touchy, and I mean to people I just met I'll touch them on the arm, leg, etc.

    I agree though that there are definitely woman who flirt on purpose and then later blame they had no idea (just not every woman is like that...hell, men do it all the time too). And also women who get huge ridiculous fake knockers but get upset when men stare at that as opposed to their face. They then use the explanation "I got these for me." But that's a whole other story.
     
  18. JohnJohnJohnson

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    falconer has this actually ever happened to you.
     
  19. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    if you touch guys a lot they will be attracted to you

    this may not be your intention but it is the effect you will have
     
  20. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Probably. He sounds pretty annoyed with the concept as if it has happened to him or he's afraid it will.

    Honestly I don't see the big deal. I mean yes, if you were dumb enough to buy some flirty girl drinks all night and then she shot you down I could see why you'd be angry....but then again you shouldn't buy a girl drinks all night when you don't really know her or how she is. If anything, when a girl does this to you you should be happy she got out in the open right away that you can move on and find another girl.
     
  21. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Maybe so, not that I care. I've always been touchy and that's how I will always be. I'm not about to change who I am just so some guy gets pussyhurt when he realizes I don't actually like him that way.
     
  22. JohnJohnJohnson

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    :rofl:

    Falconer has it happened to you irl?
     
  23. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    you should always just say this ^^ instead of that other bs
     
  24. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Sometimes you have to work to get more out of me:) I made it pretty apparent I thought from even my first post that I don't care if a guy falls for me because of how naturally flirty I am. That's just me and he needs to deal with it if I don't like him.
     
  25. JohnJohnJohnson

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    falconer this axlly happened to u or is this a hypothetical u r afraid of..
     

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