It's a matter of time. My GF is going into the military, no telling what state or even country she'll be in. Hell, she'll probably be in Iraq. My brother was there and got a bullet to the face. She says "if it was gonna work out here, it will work out when I'm gone." I don't fully believe that. I think you could take a couple that is very in love, one that would last and split them up for 4 years and let them only see each other once every couple of months and human nature will set it and split them up. What am I gonna do? I don't have many friends anymore because it's just me and her, we spend everyday together. When she goes I'll just be sitting here alone.. That's no life to live. I love her alot but I can't go with her, there's no way so I'm stuck here.