So.... Today is my second anniversary...

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  1. Cyrus.

    Cyrus. Swollen Member

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    And my fiance has not said a word about it.

    I think its going to be the straw that breaks the camels back.
    Instead of spending the night with me, shes going drinking with her g/f's, and spending the night at one of thier houses..

    Do I have a right to be pissed about this?

    Its always this way tho.. I dont feel as tho im a priority at all.. Things have gotten bland over the past year and a half, and this to me, is unacceptable.

    What should I do? Should I get pissed about it, or should I buy her flowers, and pretend like its normal behaviour?
     
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    If you do that, don't you think you'd just be encouraging this behaviour in the future?
     
  3. Cyrus.

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    Suppose.
     
  4. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    Fiance? You are having second thoughts already, so your best bet is to atleast break of the engagement. DO NOT GET MARRIED unless you are more sure than 100 percent, if there is a single doubt, then dont do it!

    I wouldnt break it all off. I would kill the engagement, go back to dating, and explain to her if she wants it to work she is going to be apart of the relationship.
     
  5. Cyrus.

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    We live together, so going in reverse isnt an option..
     
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    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    why not? Living together doesnt justify not moving backwards. If you cant go backwards just because you are living together then that is a definite sign the relationship just needs to end.

    Find yourself someone better. Seriously, when you are getting married you are making a life long (atleast hopefully) committment. Why would you make that commitment to someone who cant even make a commitment to you unmarried? Thing dont just magically change for the better once you say "I DO", they actually get harder and more stressful sometimes, and you need a STRONG foundation to make it. You dont seem to have any foundation, let along a strong one...
     
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    you need to at least say something about it if it bothers you
     
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    does she expect you to do stuff for her for it? maybe dating annis just arent important to her? tell her it bothers you?

    :dunno:
     
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    RedDawg Well-Known Member

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    she could have just forgotten :dunno:
     
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    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    i fit means something to you, tell her. You should be communicating your concerns, whatever they may be, however trivial they may seem, if it's troubles you, let her know. If you aren't communicating NOW, d you expect that your marriage will be any better>?
     
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    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    You should probably say something rather than bottle up your emotions. If you feel like it get her flowers or soemthing and tell her happy anniversary. I would wait till tomorrow to say something though, if you say something tonight she will feel bad and stay home out of pity, not because she wants to.
     
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    broseph, i would not be fucking happy if i was in your situation at all.
     
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    Truthfully, I think I would be more than irritated. It seems clear to me that either she forgot, which is a lame excuse, or that she doesn't care, which is unacceptable and disrespectful. If she is going out partying or what not when she knows that its the anni, I think you two need to have a serious conversation and probably break off at least the engagement. You can stay committed in a relationship, but I wouldn't get married if she can't respect the days. :hs:
     
  14. Sophie

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    I would be pretty pissed.
    But I guess that makes me an angry person.
    I am so impressed you remember your anniversary :)

    Mine forgets my BIRTHDAY.

    Kudos to you.
     
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    Well, what happened on your previous anniv.?
     
  16. Yail Bloor

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    this is a sign of low interest

    and why in the world would you even consider getting her flowers? Doesn't sound like she deserves them
     

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