So, this girl isnt talking to me...

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  1. CaLAbria

    CaLAbria New Member

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    Made a thread a couple weeks ago, about seeing that girl I havent seen in a year+. Well we hung out, it was chill, hooked up, had a good time, no sex though. Just a very odd bj. The girl was kinda sketch about my bracelet, which is a hair tie - think, she thought it was another girls since she kinda made a couple comments about it. Well this was last, last Thurs night and I havent talked to her since last, last Fri. So almost 2 weeks (this thurs will be 2 weeks) w/out talking...
    Now tonight, I try to chat with her over web, and get no response back :hsugh: after about 25min of nothing, I sign off.
    Now to the ?, I probably made the mistake of waiting too long and playing with her emotions or some shit. Whats the next step? Women..?
    My plan is try to talk to her on the web again, hopefully tomorrow and if that fails, Ill know shes pissed/doesnt want to talk. Goin need some help trying to get her back, or atleast her to talk without going over the top.
     
  2. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    yeah 2 weeks is likely too long, but more likely she just wasnt into you.

    move on.
     
  3. CaLAbria

    CaLAbria New Member

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    Wasnt exactly 2 weeks...but I guess its close enough. She was def into me though. We used to hook up a lott back in the day, and she was the 1 who wanted to see me, plus we ended on a good note.
    If shes not responding next time I try to chat with her, Ill move along or let her try to get at me.
     
  4. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    Does she know you are just in it for the sex? I think she might want something more and seeing that hair tie on your wrist made her realize she wouldn't get that with you.

    Leave her alone, and let her come back to you.
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Next step is move on.
     
  6. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Here's a crazy idea- Why not take a couple of your eggs and but them in a different basket?
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Easter reference? :mamoru:
     
  8. XaPU!M

    XaPU!M Active Member

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    I think you are overlooking the fact that she hasn't contacted you in 2 weeks also.

    Wouldn't hold you breath on doing anything more with her, but if you really want to try then use a god damn phone. Just because her computer is on doesn't mean she's in front of it.
     
  9. john law

    john law Guest

    full steam ahead
     
  10. Bush77

    Bush77 New Member

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    I wouldn't expect you to get a bobby j from a girl who isn't into you :dunno:

    call her? :hsugh: If she gives you a direct indication that she's not interested then move on
     
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    use the phone brosef. you know how many times i leave my laptop running (aim) and im no where near it?

    then again, she would have seen the missed message and got back to you.

    sounds to me like she has moved on... why? im not sure. maybe its the bracelet. maybe she regrets giving you head? maybe you werent the only one she was talking to and chose the other guy?

    either way.... time for you to move to the next girl.
     
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    Why do you wear a girls hair tie as a bracelet? That's kind of odd... get a man's bracelet or a watch if you're going to wear one. :squint:
     
  13. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    I knew a guy who always wore one because said you never knew when you'd get head from a girl and he liked being able to see her face.
     
  14. THoC

    THoC New Member

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    wtf :rofl:
     
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    Vysion New Member

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    Was he a boy scout when he was younger? :rofl:
     
  16. haargerman

    haargerman ayuh.

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    she's fucking someone else
     
  17. CaLAbria

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    My birthday was the other day, and she sent me a text at 12:40am wishing me a happy birthday...she was drunk, I was drunk, it was nice to see it was her.
     

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