So This Girl I like Gets with my roommate

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  1. pandemonium

    pandemonium New Member

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    So I've been hanging out with this girl for a while.
    Last week, I told her that I liked her but she said she just wants to be friends.
    She is a cool girl so I was like okay, better having her as a friend than not at all.

    Fast forward to today, she is in my roommate's room getting busy ...

    I shouldn't be, but i'm feeling jealous and now i can't sleep. I can't be mad at my roommate, he doesn't know that i like her, but i'm really p/o'ed at this girl now.

    I'm thinking of cutting her off, cuz this is making me feel miserable.

    anyway, what should i do??
     
  2. :smile:

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    was she hooking up with him before you told her how you felt?
    if she was hooking up with him before, then you can't really say anything, if it was afterwards then i'd be upset.
     
  3. The Mafia

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    do exactly that man. Cut her off.

    She obviously wasn't into you.
     
  4. pandemonium

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    she hooked up with him after i told her. ARGH

    she has this bday party tommorrow and my friends and my lab partners will be there so i have to go or else they'll be wondering wtf is wrong.

    i'm thinking i should just go to the bday party for a minute then leave. And I should tell my roommate to see if he really likes her, cuz if he does, then i can't do crap about it i guess. but i'm definitely gonna create space between her and i now
     
  5. maybeitsyou

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    rule 1. never tell a girl u like her. now, since u know whats going on, treat her less of a friend.
     
  6. Mojo

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    cut her off, it sounds like ur life will only be downed by just even talking about her. therefore, get her out of your life. there are plently more fish in the sea
     
  7. pandemonium

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    should i tell my roommate what the deal or keep to myself?
     
  8. pandemonium

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    well it kinda shows that she is either clueless or doesn't respect me at all by her doing this when i told her i liked her less than a week ago.

    If it was some other guy i wouldn't really care, but the fact that its my roommate, and i have to live with this now really irritates the hell out of me.
     
  9. pandemonium

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    well.. my intentions from the start wasn't to try and get with her. I wasn't really attracted to her in the first place. It was only in the start of summer where i started liking her.

    anyway, it sucks that it had to be my roommate. i've already said that i can't be mad at the dude. i just want summer school to be over so i can leave all this
     
  10. GSRwBOOST

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    guys dont have girlfriends... they have girls that they are friends with in hopes of banging them....

    i have a few good girlfriends and i'd fuck each and every one of them.

    but to each his own.

    distance yourself... and let your buddy know over a couple beers but dont make it an issue.

    then see if he's just fucking her to fuck her.. maybe you can work a train on her and then he can dump her as well....
     
  11. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    I have both :dunno:

    I might be unusual in that regard, but I definately do have girlfriends who I do not find attractive at all.

    However, trying to remain friends with someone you really like (rather than would just fuck if you got the chance) is quite a nice form of torture.
     
  12. Abomb

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    it is VERY possible to have chick friends. these are the girls you really dont have any active interest in fucking because you are currently pursuing hotter/ different girls.
     
  13. Riot

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    why are you mad, she doesn't owe you anything

    flip this back on your side, if there was a girl who liked you and you didn't like her back, are you seriously not allowed to hook up with anyone she knows?
     
  14. Daddy O

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    Go to the men's room and with a large black magic marker, write on the wall "FOR A GOOD TIME, CALL _ _ _ _ _ _". Then go date her mother........hey, older women can be really hot, and your vengence will be completley satisfied...not to mention your sex drive.
     
  15. Abomb

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    :rofl:
     
  16. afterShock81

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    She's really not that cool of a "girl friend" if it went like you said. She should have had more tact then just coming over to your place and banging your roomate in front of you. I guess If i were her, I would have been more tactful and more aware of your feelings.......



    oh yeah... .slut
     
  17. CrxRacer619

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    muthufuckin word!
     
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    cut the bitch off, she's not worth yr time
     
  19. Abomb

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    :rofl:
     
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    :bowdown:

    You should have asked her on a date. Next time, use actions not words.
     

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