FRK So the other night i was having sex with the SO....

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  1. FSnewb

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    and she was really getting into it since we hadnt seen each other in a week or so and neither of us had gotten any. anyways she was super horny and i was fucking her from behind and she told me to pull on her hair (which she has never asked me to do that before) and then she told me to hit her and said she likes it rough. i had no idea what to do becuase she has never said that before so i didnt know what to do so i just slapped her ass and fucked her harder. if this happends again though what should i do? how do i hit her and where and how hard??? i had no idea she was this crazy in bed :bowdown:
     
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    Might I suggest a double axe handle to the small of the back. =P Kidding.

    That's awesome...I remember the first time i was going at it from behind and pulled the hair...I felt like I had just reinvented the wheel =P

    My suggestion, slowly raise the bar every time...did she say hit her? I doubt she ment close fisted or anything, keep to slapping until she gives you a hint.

    normally I'd say talk to her about it, but when it comes to things like this, talking about it can kinda kill the fun of finding out on your own.
     
  3. Cherryfire

    Cherryfire "If we believe obsurdities, we shall commit atroci

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    I crave a nice slap to the face from time to time during sex. I applaud her bravery in asking for it. Talk about it OUTSIDE of the bedroom and discuss boundaries and safety first. Ask her what exactly she's looking for in those situations. As Im sure you know, slapping a girl could carry some consequences unless you've discussed it and gotten her okay in a less sexually charged atmosphere.
     
  4. FSnewb

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    but like the post above you, that kind of kills the roughness of it because it was planned.
     
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    she does have a point though. But if you only raise the bar slowly, don't knuckle her in the mouth or anything, I'm sure you will slowly move up from hair pulling and ass slapping and see where she's not interested in taking it and what she likes. You have plenty of time to learn your partner when it comes to sex, don't try to figure it all out in a night =)
     
  6. Cherryfire

    Cherryfire "If we believe obsurdities, we shall commit atroci

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    I still say before you strike her in the face..you really should talk about it first. Make sure thats what she really wants. Unfortunately you really could set yourself up for a lot of trouble if its only being said in passion and shes not really sure thats what she could stand.

    If you need to do it "right then!", then slap her bottom, pull her hair harder..but i really would wait to slap her face until you talk to her about it.
     
  7. FSnewb

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    so when she said "hit me" you guys think she meant hit her in the face? i dont know it just seems so akward...
     
  8. xela

    xela So say we all!

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    That's a good question. I know that if I said "hit me" I would be suggesting my face, but everyone has their own thing.

    Maybe you should clarify what she means...she could've just meant "spank me" but it was in the heat of passion....
     
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    I'd say that would be the main thing to discuss with her, like cherry said. ask her, casually. "Hey, just curious, when you say "hit me" where's off limits?" that might turn her on, since you seem ineterested in it enough to do it, and are asking the few places it's off limits to. that sounds like a good approach to me. If she starts setting rules and boundaries from there on, atleast it wasn't you, so the mood will probably be fine =)
     
  10. FSnewb

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    that sound like a decent idea. the thing is she is one of those girls who doesn't like to talk about sex unless shes really horny, but i think that is the best approach.
     
  11. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    talk it over.. Shit for me the talking gets me all primed and ready for it... makes me even hornier... if you are going to be mature enough to fuck, you should be at least mature enough to talk about it.
     
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    very HOT, I remember when my SO asked to be slapped and choked. I never looked back :cool:
     
  13. FSnewb

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    i was waiting for PE. before talking with my g/f what do you think she means by hit me and i like it rough? how do i hit her?
     
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    just ball your fist up and hit'er with a right hook to the jaw.


    J/K, she prolly just wants you to spank that ass.
     
  15. Cherryfire

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    Ask HER what it means. Whats rough to her may be weak sauce to another. Maybe she likes you to be really aggressive with sex as far as just pulling hair or slapping her butt...or maybe she wants you to toss her around like a rag doll and rub her face into the wall/carpet with your fist in her mouth. Every person has their own defininiton of "rough". Find out what hers is.
     
  16. FSnewb

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    alright i was just trying to find out if there was some sort of norm for this kind of thing. thanks for the responses.
     
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    lol, I remember when I was talking about "freakiness" with my SO, she said she was freaky...I"d already been posting here for a while, so I laughed (thinking of the levels of freakiness that the people who post here reach) so I ask her "oh yeah? how freaky are you? what have you done? i don't need details, just curious" so she tells me, and I want to laugh because when compared to the kinds of wonderous things that PE and her master do...she doesn't compare.

    Anyhow, moral of the story, Phantom empress may just be the queen of the freaks in the known world...don't ask her what "hit me" means in bed =P

    Good luck though, keep us updated
     
  18. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    :rofl: what's funny, is i KNOW there are WAY crazier people than me.. I just talk about what I do...
     
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    I'm sure there are, but to the average internet geek, there's not much to compare you to. Hell most porn out there doesn't get as freaky as some of the pictures you've posted here =P Keep up the good work! [​IMG]
     
  20. Lavender

    Lavender Easter is my favorite holiday...

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    I liked to be slapped in the face, but its softer then a real slap. she probably means her ass mostly, because that is a HUGE turn on. biting is another big one that will win your over.
     
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    The Secretary My domestic skills will rock your socks off!

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    awww man, my dad has told me that before... bad memories.
     
  22. Devils Angel

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    i asked my man to get a littler rough with me as he was AWLAYS so damn gentle.... he stopeed what we were doing and asked me to explain what i meant...it killed that particluar moment :big grin: but since hten it has only gotten better nw when we are in doggy he grabs my hair and pulls my head back, (though my hair is down past my arse so i dont get it yanked too hard, i am thinking of cutting it a little shorter so i get more out of it) he spontainiously smacks my arse and surprises me now. i have even been thrown on the bed and tied up and screwed all night. i dont want to be slapped in the face as that would be asking too much from him since he believes no man should hit a woman in any circumstance, unless she asks for it specifically. so for him to smack me in the face would make him uncomfortable. i suggest talking to your SO and ask what kinda things does she want from the rough playing, tell her if it makes you feel too uncomfortable and use it to your advantage. telling her what you are going to next time may jsut prime her up again for you. i love talking about anything to do with sex. esp when my other half tells me what i am in for as it builds aticipation. plus he tells me while we are out he will wisper it in my ear and i get so horny i want to do him then and there. talking may kill the moment you are in but it can be very worht it in the long run as next time YOU know what she wants, and your SO can get it :big grin: (both satisfied)
     

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