SRS So the line - "Its not you, its me" is really the reverse?

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  1. Guz200sx

    Guz200sx The man who does more than he is paid for will soo

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    When the girl says "Its not you, its me" really means its really you, the guy??

    How can I fix this within myself??
     
  2. Peyomp

    Peyomp New Member

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    Its you, but there's nothing you can do about it. The only thing you need to fix in yourself is your self esteem. Its possible that someone doesn't want you, but there's nothing wrong with you, or them.
     
  3. familyguy101

    familyguy101 New Member

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    yup, sometimes 2 people just aren't meant to be for each other.....nothin you can do about it.
     
  4. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    It could be the standard cop out of not saying what you really mean to save someones feelings, or she could really mean it. Chances are though that its just trying to cover up what she really wants to say.
     
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    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    Yeah most ppl want to break the news gently. I think those words mean that she thinks you're a good person but she just doesn't want to date you. So it's not like she's actually lying. I mean it's a matter of perspective no?
     
  6. iceburgslim

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    You're probably such a mess that she is afraid if she tells you the truth that you will do something crazy.
     
  7. JordanClarkson

    JordanClarkson OT Supporter

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    It means "you're a great guy but for some reason I'm just not into you." She just doesn't feel romantic enough towards you, maybe because you're not assholish enough. You can still get her by changing things up, but you'll never be the love of her life sort of guy.
     

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