FRK so the GF wants to try cuffs...

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  1. Culex

    Culex New Member

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    A couple weeks ago my GF said she wants to be cuffed and I honestly don't know what to think. Up till now we haven't done anything too crazy, just the usual sex/foreplay stuff (Shes also the first girl I've had sex with, so shes the first that I will be cuffing). Is there anything I should watch out for? I dont wanna dislocate her arm or anything, thatll just kill everything.
     
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    I'd go to the local adult store and buy some soft cuffs... possibly velcro ones, especially if you're not comfortable with real/metal ones. They'll be more comfortable on her wrists. They're not too expensive either.
     
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    I was thinking that.....a guy I worked with taught me the rope knot with a rope (and I do use a rope as a belt so I would always have one), but I think it might be a little to coarse, especially since it is her first time being cuffed as well.
     
  4. Hypno toad

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    kinky shit so early. nice. go for it but just use common sense that's how ppl end up in the emergency room.
     
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    Either cuff her to the bed rails or bend her over and cuff her behind her back. Laying flat on a bed with your hands cuffed in front of you is not that exciting. Wanna know what really enhances hand cuffs? Eye covering of somekind. Like a bandanna or some sleeping mask.
     
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    Culex New Member

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    I was thinkin the eye covering...im actually taking her to a suprise dinner (im gonna blindfold her on the way there so its a suprise) so ill be able to gauge if she likes being blindfolded.
     
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    rope, socks, scarves, pantyhose, panties. Pay a visit to home depot they have lots of rope if you wish to try that. I prefer the velcro cuffs. Zip ties also work if you have something to cut them.

    Also handy when the kids wont leave you alone.
     
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    dont give her the option to not blind fold her. blind fold her while she is cuffed. ;)
     
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    just keep it simple
     
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    Just get some fuzzy cuffs, cuff her, then have fun. On the flipside, when she ties you up, it's hotter (IMO anyway) if she uses your ties. :naughty:
     
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    We've tried this a few times, the S.O. is actually allergic to basically every metal excepting for 10/14k gold so metal cuffs would leave rashes in the form of rings all over her wrists, can't really explain that one to people :rofl:

    after only a few minutes though, I have to let her go, she has poor circulation, thanks mom and grandma so her arms always go numb and start to hurt, kinda sucks :(
     
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    my fiancee and I just made our first purchase from adamandeve.com ... first set of toys for us ever. We got the beginners bondage set ... we both are really looking forward to trying it out
     
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    HouseLing When masturbations lost its fun you'r fucking lazy

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    good choice :h5:
     
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    yay bondage! :h5:
     

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