First post in FS, be gentle. Second, I realize this might be somewhat more appropriate for the Vag but I don't want to suffer through the countless dumbass and typically juvenile replies that you find in that forum. You all tend to handle things much more maturely and matter of factly here. Third, it somewhat relates to the FS mentality anyway. That said, my fiance and I have hit a "dry spell" in the past two months where it seems like she just could give a shit less about sex until she's actually in the act. Once she's going, she seems to enjoy the hell out of it just like old times, but getting her started seems to take a lot more effort lately than it ever did before. The odd thing is, when we started dating she was a wildcat in bed. Really liked sex, liked being adventurous and told me she initially thought she was going to be a little too much for "straight laced" me. To her surprise, I wasn't as straight laced as she had me pegged for and that made our romps in bed even more mind numbingly awesome. We live together, commute together and are around each other nearly 24/7 on the weekends and such. So I know she's not cheating simply because there's no chance for her to do. That nixxes that idea right off the bat, thankfully. We're also very much in love, both dedicated to our relationship and both really looking forward to getting married in a few months. It just seems like all of a sudden the fire has fizzled. Which leads me to the reason I'm posting here in the first place... I'm sure other FS'ers have hit a dry spell at least once before. What did you do to get the intensity back? I'm looking for ideas here, folks. Thanks.