I've been dating/talking to this guy who absolutely gorgeous and he's awesome as shit! We have a lot of the same interests and general living ideals and we just generally get along really well. We mesh! We are both very much physically attracted to each other but we haven't slept together just because we don't want it to make anything different or difficult on our friendship. He was hurt really bad in his past by an ex-lover and he's very open about it, so he doesn't want to rush into anything nor do I. Here's the catch. I am moving next month and really like this guy a lot. Yet, he says he's ready for a change as well. So should I tell him I want to take it to the next level and be exclusive and ask him to move with me to NY? Or do I just leave it as is and just be friends? I'm confused? I've never felt this way before and I don't particularly like it.