FRK So, she's gonna take it IDB for the first time and ask me to do it to her.

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  1. djbuzzfuzz

    djbuzzfuzz OT Supporter

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    For those of you that have ACTUALLY DONE IT, tell me the do's and the dont's.
    I especially wanna hear from the ladies. Its important to me that i dont hurt her.
     
  2. NoLiving

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    Don't force anything hard?

    But where's the freaky? Are you going to be wearing cowboy hats and spurs?

    Giddy up girl!
     
  3. Sandoz

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    God, aren't there already 3000 how-to guides on that? :rolleyes:

    1- Make her relax, give her a massage and good head beforehand.

    2- Put her on her back with cushions under her waist, go progressively, with LOTS OF LUBE and LOTS OF INPUT from her. Start with your tongue, one finger, two fingers, and if she likes it, go from there.

    Good luck. IDB is awesome, I wish I could be re-discovering it all over again. Enjoy, it's going to be a special time! :bigthumb:

    Edit: PS, I'm a girl.
     
  4. pulp priest

    pulp priest we're here! we're queer! we don't want any more be

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    you have to be very careful not to get caught up in the moment and just start pumping away. odds are you will NOT finish in her ass the first time you do it, because she probably won't be able to take a fast rhythm for her first time. go slow and be very very careful to do exactly what she wants.
     
  5. Durka Durka

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    even if she does take it, which was the case with my first try with this, she's probably gonna be really sore the next day if you do.
     
  6. thatshot2

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    the first time i did it, it went really smooth and my SO did it fast and i wasnt sore the next day.


    he also would use a finger and tongue to get me even more relaxed.
    but now before each time i use a toy to get me relaxed before he actually goes in

    but DO keep talking with her and do not rush it because if you just jab your dick in, it will hurt and she will tense and it wont be a happy ending for the 2 of you

    but goodluck! you both will love it
     
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    Once it's started it's way in, don't pull back until it's all the way in and she's relaxed. The toy works well for us like she said ^^
     
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    The only guide worth following is the one by the one and only Sam Gamgee
    http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=1722316
     
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    My personal female perspective...I'll add again:
    -Use lot's of lube.
    -Go slow, work up to it with fingers and toys.
    -I find face-up with my ass propped way up much more pleasurable and comfortable than doggy-style.

    Have fun! :)
     
  10. djbuzzfuzz

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    anyone ever heard of someone contracting Hepetitis C from it?
     
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    TigreTek omega member OT Supporter

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    only if they have it. :dunno:
     
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    ............lube her up, slide it in and then pound away as hard and fast as you can.

    1. She will cry.
    2. She will hate you.
    3. She wont ever take it up the ass again.


    ...............errrr, oh....I thought you asked how not to do idb.
     
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    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    yes. Hep C can be contracted through any form of unprotected sex.
     
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    :rofl:

    Or she may end up loving it halfway. :x:
     
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    natalie5445 Frau Blücher

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    Lube up, be gentle, make sure she's okay, and listen. The first time I had the buttsex, it hurt, and I didn't want to continue, but we tried again later and it was fine. I never got anything out of it, but it was painless as long as I was relaxed, and in a position where no butt muscles were flexed. Go spoons position at first, definitely. And remember, the B-hole doesn't like the same things as vag does, not in my case anyway. Yes, be gentle and listen, best advice I can give you.
     
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    My ex always used a toy while doing anal she said it helped her relax and helped take her mind off the initial pain.. but yes going slow is a must last thing you want to do is hurt her or you will never be back to the back door. also grab some extra pillows and prop her behind up on them as Amphitrite said.

    also when I went down on her I would also take some time out and give some attention to that area also which I think helped also.
     
  17. djbuzzfuzz

    djbuzzfuzz OT Supporter

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    Thanx, everyone
    Your people are the breast!
     
  18. Lovely Atlantis

    Lovely Atlantis Luscious Lovely Lady!

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    hmmm was that an intentional typo?
     
  19. djbuzzfuzz

    djbuzzfuzz OT Supporter

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    of course it was!
     
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    Dunno about Hep C, but I believe there's a chance that e. coli and stuff may be up there :hsd:
     
  21. Vtec44

    Vtec44 OG!

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    use a condom :)
     
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    how'd it go?
     
  23. djbuzzfuzz

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    i dont get home till Sept21
    But i will update!
     

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