This morning I told my mom to fuck off, cause I was finally got fed up with her trying to stress me out before work. She told me that she was gonna throw out all the stuff on my desk while I was gone because it was messy. Whenever I go to work she tries to give me something to stress over so I don't feel comfortable while I'm there. Anyway, now I'm back from work and they're both ostracizing me. Normally my dad would be pissed off, but now hes afraid of me, so he's just giving me these really curt, disappointed responces. He's got that "I don't know what to do with you anymore, and I don't even care" type attitude. My mom won't even look at me. Anyway, it feels good not to be affected by this so much anymore. I used to get shunned by them anytime I tried to stand up to their verbal abuse and threats. When I was like 16, when I was weightlifting at home my mom would always bother me and talk down to me while I had a bunch of weight above my head. Saying things like "you're gonna drop it" or "isn't that too much weight for you?". I told her not to talk to me while I'm lifting because its distracting, so she stopped talking to me completely for about 3 months because I had "hurt" her so much. I can't wait till I can finally move out.