MIL So my longtime friend wants to marry me

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  1. oliver

    oliver New Member

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    She's currently in the army and is gonna be deployed soon overseas....She wants to marry me because apparently she gets a huge increase in income and she's promising me a hefty amount monthly to complete the marriage proccess with her. Prenuptials are a must of course, but besides that aspect, is there any other security measure i might have to take to evade getting fucked over somehow? I dont live with her and I'm wondering if there will be investigations on if the marriage is legit and whatnot...she says no worries that its done frequently...etc.

    Has anyone ever done this? pros? cons? risks?
     
  2. usmcdevil

    usmcdevil wouldnt you like to know

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    no they dont really follow up
     
  3. oliver

    oliver New Member

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    So this is heard of? marrying someone to increase income? I mean i just dont want to take any legal risks on my part? of course she can be kicked out of the army and etc etc but idk i want the most details possible before signing on the dotted line you know :hs:
     
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    mrduke OT Supporter

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    this will end well.
     
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    ManinCamo I wear big boy pants.

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    I concur. Nothing will possibly go wrong.
     
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    For the love of god don't. My uncle is still technically married to a chick because she wanted the benifits and they were sort of friends, she was in the army but got an unhonorable discharge and now is stuck with her plastic surgery bill because the army won't pay for it anymore and she ran off to Australia
     
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    not recommended, because there's always a dick that wants to fuck with you.
    If you do get married, file "separated" with her command imo. Some slut in my first command did that, she got away with too much. you still get the pay, and I think theres more restrictions, but it could be a lifeline later.
     
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    PlutoBHG New Member

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    probly not a good place to ask about this...believe it or not
     
  9. smokie700

    smokie700 right near da beach, Boiiiii

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    contract marriages are pretty common. biggest problem is that you become 50% responsible for any debt/ credit issues that arise during the marriage and also who will cover the divorce cost. That and you will have a marriage under your belt (only a problem for the catholics)
     
  10. oliver

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    She said we can file seperate taxes :o As soon as we become legally married I'm liable for her debt you say? :confused:

    Thanks for all the input guys, I really wasn't sure it was as easy as she said it was, she did seem a little eager and I have a tendency to think girls are lying cheating whores because of OT :mamoru:
     
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    dont give OT any credit for truths / philosopies you accept
    everyone knows that deep down in their core already :noes:
     
  12. NEp8ntballer

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    enlisted troops marry each other all of the time. most of the time they do it to get out of the crappy bachelor's quarters or because there is nothing better to do at the time.

    oh and we need pics to decide if this sham of a marriage is a good decision.
     
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    She said getting out of her quarters is one of the main objectives, she said she doesnt care much about the $ thus the proposition of her giving me $ for me monthly.
     
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    you won't be responsible for the debt unless you put your name on it.
     
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    With all these possible Pain in the ass situations i think i'm gonna have to say no to her :noes: I mean she could already be preggerz trying to fuck me over, or be shitload in debt for all i know. :o

    And as far as im concerned shes not LEGALLY obliged to send me shit, so she can go MIA and never fucking contact me again forcing me to have to hunt her down and etc etc. :hsugh: Thanks barracks you guys rock. Come home soon. Fuck bush. :noes:
     
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    People do it all the time here to get out of the dorms..
     
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    :werd:

    And don't do it. It's not worth the money.
     
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    Ranger-AO I'm here for the Taliban party. Moderator

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    As far as the threadstarter is concerned, I don't see any negatives. He will have full paid medical, vision, and dental insurance, extra money, access to PX and Commissary, and probably other benefits that I'm overlooking. He would need to make sure that any prenups include a separation of debts (past/present/future), and probably some other safeguards, but all that is easily done.

    The risks will be borne by his friend/wife. She risks reduction in rank, fines, imprisonment, and dishonorable discharge.

    But I may be overlooking something. :dunno:
     
  19. brackac

    brackac Fuck all of this. OT Supporter

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    Scandalous. If she had bad credit, it will become your bad credit. If she has debt, it is now your debt. Also you might want to look into child support legalities in regards to a male acting as a father for a child that is not his. Numerous men have been stuck with child support payments to kids they did not father because they were the acting parent.
     
  20. Ranger-AO

    Ranger-AO I'm here for the Taliban party. Moderator

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    :nono: prenups can take care of this.

    truth :noes:
     
  21. brackac

    brackac Fuck all of this. OT Supporter

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    Then he is also admitting, in a legal environment, that he defrauded the US government. Nothing like telling Uncle Sam that you stole money from him.
     
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    Not true. She is cheating on him, thus she will get at least NJP for adultery.
     
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    its not that big of a pay raise
     
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    Just think...when you one day actually meet the woman you want to marry you can tell her you're divorced. :hsugh:
     
  25. NEp8ntballer

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    who wouldn't want to give me the opportunity for extra marital relations? I'd sell it off as a cheap thrill. the wifey won't mind. she won't even know, she's thousands of miles away. he'd have to make sure not to mention it to the spouses group. shit between them and the deployed travels faster than the speed of light.
     

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