She's currently in the army and is gonna be deployed soon overseas....She wants to marry me because apparently she gets a huge increase in income and she's promising me a hefty amount monthly to complete the marriage proccess with her. Prenuptials are a must of course, but besides that aspect, is there any other security measure i might have to take to evade getting fucked over somehow? I dont live with her and I'm wondering if there will be investigations on if the marriage is legit and whatnot...she says no worries that its done frequently...etc. Has anyone ever done this? pros? cons? risks?