My girl has been on the pill for about 2.5 years now. It worked out great in the beginning, for the obviously reasons. We never had sex previous to the pill, not even with a condom. But the last year or so hasn't been so great, she is basicly never in the mood and I have beg her to even think about sex. We usually do it about as often as the seasons change. Well, because of this, she is going to stop the pill in hopes of gaining back her libido. I don't know what to make of this. We had sex a few times with a condom, just because, but I'm worried about the protection condoms provide. The pill was such a sure thing. Never any worries. Am I being an idiot? Should I be glad that my girlfriend will hopefully want to have sex with me again like when we first met? Should I expect anything as she quits? Will this turn around in weeks, or months, or will I be looking at a long time before her drive is back again? Anyone have any insight? I don't have anyone to talk to this about, so I'm turning to OT, for better or worse.