Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by jayC, Jun 30, 2008.
Give me some good stuff to say.
watch some porn
Bleh, don't force dirty talk. If you can't think of anything to say and nothing you are feeling at that moment gets put into words then don't do it at all.
Coming up with a list of things to say during dirty talk is just as bad as faking an orgasm IMO.
BTW, moving into FS where they will likely come up with loads of stuff
There's your answer. It will take time...you will try a few little things and with time it will come...but neither of you should expect that she says 'I want you to talk dirty' and you suddenly are amazing....it will take a while, don't force it. Ask her what KIND of dirty talk she wants as it can mean SO MANY different things
Try phonesex with her some time. You will be forced to get better with dirty talk.
People have tried this type of thread before, it never works. I dont know why you FSers cant just write down some of the things you and your SOs say to each other. It shouldnt be that difficult.
Start small, and feel her out.....
Youve been craving cock all day havent you, you dirty little slut?
Get on your knees, I wanna feel you choke on my dick.
That tight little pussy feels amazing streching around my cock.
Then tell her if she wants your load shes gonna have to beg for it
These are just some examples. If anybody wants more or wants to contribute just say so
Anything you say in the heat of the moment sounds pretty retarded out of it.
Good dirty talk is more about how you say it than about what you say. You can say anything really, like "You have been a bad, bad girl, haven't you?" or "I am so turned on right now I am gonna fuck your brains out" or "Want my dick? Come get it."
In my experience, what works are the more subtle lines, like when she's giving me head, I'll run my hand through her hair, look her in the eye and go "Mmmm that feels good", and she will know I mean it. Or when we are having sex and we are really going at it, and I go "You have no idea how good this feels" and keep going; she knows from the way I say it that I mean it, and I think that works a lot more.
I have heard over and over from women that I am more communicative than any man they have been with; it's not because I talk dirty every minute we are having sex. It's because I don't go all quiet during sex, and I will give her reassurance that she's good and I'll let her know when something feels good that she's doing it right. When I take the lead and show her how to communicate, girls usually pick it up fast and they return the favor. That's how I know what to change and when to change things up.
Sorry about the length of the post, but you didn't seem happy with the brevity of the responses, so I explained why it's hard to tell someone exactly what to say.
First of all, none of the stuff you said is talking dirty. Youre just talking. Giving feedback and instructions is fine but there is nothin dirty about saying "Mmmmm that feels good."
Obviously anything you say has to be said in the tone of voice that you intend during the moment. I know that most things said during sex can sound funny when youre not in the moment but this is FS. Give us some credit. Most of the people in this Forum will tell you that certain things sound sexy as fuck no matter what mood youre in.
I am still new here, so I guess I haven't gotten a handle on things yet, so I was going by the first post and the responses after that.
I am pretty sure some of the stuff I mentioned is "talking dirty". The rest was about communication. You gotta get the communication down first, and then you can take it to the next level. If you already got it down, then you probably don't need to read my post. The OP doesn't seem like he's got it down, so I was just helping a brotha out. I agree with iwishyouwerebeer; saying a littany of pre-meditated lines is pretty darn bad. That's why I said have phonesex with the SO and get some practice talking dirty.
True and True. Lately it seems like I do more dirty Texting than phone sex though. Camera phones have made dirty texting super fun.
I'd usually have phonesex with a girl if we've had sex more than once, but I text-sex/email-sex only after we've known each other for a while. This girl I was seeing for a while, her and I went a whole work day just going back and forth about what we'd do if her friend was involved. Her friend was hot, had a great ass AND a great rack, and I could tell she wanted to get with that girl really badly. If we had been together even a couple more weeks, they woulda had sex, but I digress. Yeah, talking about sex throughout the day is hot. By the time you get home, you are more than ready to rip each other's clothes off.
Makes sitting at work so much more interesting. lol
Hearing a normally silent guy whimper out a moan as he slides inside of me has sent me over the top more times than hearing filthy phrases and commands (which are still hot ).
there's a whole thread of ideas "what's the hottest thing ever said to you"
there you go.
I talk dirty for a job.....
Find out what words turn her on. Some women love the words cunt, pussy, slit, hole.. some are immediately turned off.
What acts turn her on, Does she want to be degraded, called a slut or a whore? Called a little girl, called a bad girl, called a cock sucker? Does she want her womanhood glorified?
Ideas. Yes they are going to sound cheesy when you are reading them. If you use them, make them fit for you.
You know what I want you little bitch? I want you on your knees licking my cock till I can feel your spit running onto my balls.
Spread your legs for me so I can tongue that hot pussy of yours. Make me drown in your juices.
Impale yourself on my cock and ride me hard. Grind yourself into me and cum on me. I want to hear you moan as I fuck you.
Bend over. Spread your legs. Wider. Feel my cock probing you? Think of how it will feel when I fuck your tight ass. Beg for me to shove it into you.
Yes, you are going to feel awkward. But if it turns her on, and you are not adverse to it, even better if it is a turn on for you. It doesnt matter, It will do what it needs to do.
lick my balls. yeah! lick those balls! eat them!
"i'm a virgin"