She went to a party with a group of people that she went to HS with. Had a few drinks and got really sick. One of her Best friends took her from the bathroom and put her in his bed. She said she blacked out and all she remembers is telling him no. When she woke up a few hrs later her clothing was on the floor. She cant remember what happened which is one of the many reasons she wont report. I have urged her to get a rape kit done which now maybe to late. The other big issue is she does not want to report it because she feels she will lose her friends. I am trying to be as nice as I can be but I dont know what I can do to get her to get tested out and report. She acts like if she does not think about it and does not see him again everything will be ok. I know she is going to need some type of treatment. I dated a girl who was raped and had treatment for years and she was not over it. I dont think people ever get over it 100%. Anyone have any ideas on what I can do? I have a huge list of things going on in my mind right now. I just dont know what the best course of action is.