So, my gf asked my permission...

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  1. FlakBait

    FlakBait New Member

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    to have lunch with a co-worker (male). Does that mean anything or am I just over-analyzing?
     
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    well she asked so it means your woman is cool.
     
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    dont see why she would feel the need to eat with another dude
     
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    find out if hes gay, then its ok
     
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    It doesn't really bother me, I thought she would just go ahead and do it. Never had a girl ask my permission before. :hs:
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    what did you say in response
     
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    I told her it was okay.
     
  8. demosnat

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    She felt the need to ask?
    I'm asking, don't bite my head off boys.
     
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    is it a guy you know?
     
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    yes, he and I have the same supervisor - work friends basically
     
  11. kiri

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    oh werd. my bf knows pretty much all my guy friends and i'm sure he'd be comfortable with me going to lunch with any of them. guys can tell when another guy is after their girl :mamoru:
     
  12. demosnat

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    This really shouldn't be a problem. Keeping her isolated from the opposite sex isn't going to deter her from cheating if shes predisposed to doing so. What it may do, is make her resentful towards you for dictating her social life.
     
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    If she bothered to ask that means that she is not likely to have any motive to cheat or spark something up with this guy.

    At least she asked if you were ok with it... which is pretty cool IMO.
     
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    eh... there is something to be said for just avoiding the appearance of impropriety. im sure she didn't expect him to say no, but just wanted to be polite.
     
  15. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    If she cares enough to not only let you know, but to ask if you're ok with it or not, I doubt it's anything to worry about. Even if the guy is interested in your gf, sounds like she's too committed to you for anything to happen.

    I could be wrong though, girls are sneaky...
     
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    Probably was just being a smart girl, and knows if she starts going out to eat and doesnt tell you, and you find out 3 weeks later that they have been going out to eat and u havent been told... u will wonder why the hell this has been happening behind your back.

    She is keeping you in the loop. Sounds like a good female.
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rofl: I think that is very good of her. lol, I wouldn't even ask my bf for permission...but that's because I know he wouldn't give a shit and because I know I wouldn't do anything.
     
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    are they already friends or have an innocent reason for having lunch together? if so then it shouldnt be a big deal at all

    id be kind of weirded out if she just knew him through you and dont know each other very well, but i dont know your situation

    my rule of thumb has always been if they were friends before i came around and have no history of hooking up or dating then i dont care at all
     
  19. BornToFly

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    you are over-analyzing, I"m sure she just wanted to make sure you were comfortable with it. Don't you trust her?
     
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    I do trust her, I've just never had a gf ask my permission before. Usually they just do it and tell me after the fact.
     
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    Dreams2Reality saywhat

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    It's a good girl bruh, appreciate it.
     
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    she just wanted to make sure you were cool with it then. being upfront and honest. be greatful for that. :)
     
  23. hobbitnomore

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    first off, she told you before she went out with him. and secondly, no woman in he right should have to ask her man permission to do anything. seems like she is a honest one. don't get jealous!!! stay cool.
     
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    thanks everybody

    :love:
     
  25. lauren

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    i always ask. :hsughno:


    but it's not like i'm asking to go out with just any guy; i'm pretty selective before i run it by the bf.
     

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