FRK So my GF and I had a talk.

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  1. rich a

    rich a New Member

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    First of all, I'm new to the forum, but I have always had a little appetite for the more freaky stuff. I have lurkred here for a while, but I'm a little shy, so I never really posted.

    Unfortunately, I have never been with a girl who I was able to share those "interests" with. But I have been with my GF for three years, and I love her to death. We have always had great sex, and I was always happy with it, but like I said, I have always had a side of me that I was never able to share. Now, I'm not as freaky as other on this board, but I'm definitely more freaky than the average person.

    I finally sat down with the GF and talked to her about it, and she actually seems really into trying some new things. As it turns out, we discovered that she REALLY likes lesbian porn and enjoys watching blondes and really gets turned on by all the licking and moaning :bowdown:. We sat down and ordered some toys for the both of us, which should arrive this week.

    I know this might seem silly, but I'm just really excited and happy that we'll be expanding our sexual horizons a bit and I'm curious if you have anyu tips/tricks to make our experiences as fun and erotic as possible. Of course, we have our limits and I don't want to overwhelm her, but we really want to try new stuff.

    Thanks so much, and I look forward to participating much more here.
     
  2. DarkAngel19

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    That's so cool, yet another reason that communicating is the best way to get what you want. Way to put yourself out there and have it pay off!

    Let us know what kind of kinky things you two get into:)

    DA
     
  3. RougeOgre

    RougeOgre FS Librarian and MOD

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    Congrats! We are always happy to have new people!
     
  4. rich a

    rich a New Member

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    I couldn't be happier. I thought about what I should say and I let her know that if she didn't feel comfortable that it was totally ok. But regardless, she seems really into it.

    I'll be sure to give updates as soon as we do some stuff.
     
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    :wavey: Thanks for welcoming me in.
     
  6. pigeon

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    dude, rock on! that's so cool when you both discover you're into similar things, especially freaky things. :naughty: cheers to broadening horizons and welcome to our freaky little corner of the world.
     
  7. rich a

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    Thanks for having me.
     
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    Congrats! You'll have to let us know what happens with your new toys :naughty:
     
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    Yay! Congrats. Let us know how things go with the new toys etc!

    Just a tip...dont take it too freaky too fast...like dont do a whole bunch of new things in one night, gradually change things up a bit.
     
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    just try one thing at a time. once you get comfy with one thing add another element and so on...
     
  11. Bubba Atlantis

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    Greetings Rich. I am glad you found something that works....Hopefully you will jump on our COMMUNICATE bandwagon, whenever you someone else posts in here...you can provide your story.

    Now for all the others sitting here not communicating.....imagine Rich, if you had mentioned this prior to being in a relationship for three years (say after year one) you could be going into year three of your freaky :)

    We always tell everyone here, communicate. One of two things will happen. 1) you will be happier in your relationship and have more fun or 2) find out that the relationship is not going to ever get to where you think it might (on the freaky level).

    Again, congrats on the newly found information, have lots of fun and welcome to the section and we look forward to you posting and sharing your experiences as well as learning from others.

    P.S. Invite the Mrs in here some time. :)
     
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    what toys did you get? interested in what your 'starter' toys are.
     
  13. mikmit

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    glad your talk went much better than mine. my girl blocked out any thought of FS :(
     
  14. rich a

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    sounds like you're off to a good start. :)
     

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