Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by Adison, Feb 24, 2007.
editted for being a huge pussy ROFL
dont let it seem like it bothers you. guarantee they are doing it just to get a reaction outta ya
^ thinking so...
how long broken up? sounds like a great friend.
my ex gf had a crush on my best friend all while we were dating. During one of our rough patches he was in a rough patch of his own, so he took the bait and the two of them were discussion how they could get together behind my back. I found out, they didn't talk. I broke up with her, they talk again, I'm sure she still wants him, and I'm sure he still loves the attention. Sounds like your friends kinda being a douche as well
if all fails...stab 'em
out of curiousity, how old are you? im in high-school and this seems like something that might happen here
Gehy on their part!
meh, my ex pulled something similar, and he was 29.
o man that was funny. at least you have a good sense of humor
Did you say anything to them/ give a weird look?
Alright, let me start by saying that sucks, and I've been there.
Let me continue with saying you need to cut all contact off with your ex, and make your feelings clear to your friend. If you are not cool (and it most def sounds like you aren't) with them being together, whether it be just flirting or in a relationship or whatever, you need to tell him. You also need to tell him what will happen if he decides to be selfish (and trust me, only incredibly selfish people could do that to a friend) and go against what you request. IE tell him you will have to cool off and not talk to him for awhile, tell him that you and him won't be friends anymore, tell him whatever it is you are ready and willing to do if he decides to be a shit friend to you.
After all that is said and done, your feelings are aired and the consequences are clear, all you can do is sit back and watch. Likely they will get together, likely they will try to lie about it. But the second you find out, do exactly what you told him you would do. Stick to whatever consequence you said, and don't ever backtrack. You'll want to, and he may prompt you to, but don't do it. At that point it's showing him what you will and will not tolerate. I believe you teach people how to treat you, and while you cannot necessarily prevent this, you can show him (and all your other friends) exactly how you deal with crap people. For me, yeah people treat me like this...but they only do it once. After that, they don't get the chance. Fuck that, I don't have time to bullshit. Next.
This whole process gets much easier with time.
I'm with Viper on this one. You should have kicked that bitch and your backstabbing friend the fuck out.
Next time she pulls dat shit, cock smack dat biaaaaaaatch....