sup everyone. i posted here about a month back that i got dumped with no warning signs (but i wasnt the guy who made the thread titled as such). it became apparent that none of the feelings left. and i dont mean the "love" feelings but also the romantic "in love" and strong attraction feelings. neither in me nor in her. i held out for three weeks, decided to see her to get some closure, say what was on my mind, and it turned into her crying in my arms because she misses me like crazy. at the same time both her and i realize that 1) i want to live a "single" period in my life 2) she wants to be "single" not to experience things with other guys but because she needs a lot of space to balance out her life and just live life without being tied down in a daily couple routine and so now we are seeing eachother with three ground rules: 1) be honest 2) keep some space / no living together, routine 3) be free my gut feeling is in this arrangement we'd basically "date" once or twice a week. so its like casual dating, but we're in love. this feels like i'm playing with fire. however, i've never made such a clear and honest decision before as far as couples go and it feels very refreshing.