After nearly 5 years (and two days after we signed a lease for an apartment starting June1) he decided that he just decided he didn't want to be with me. He's gone through a list of excuses on why. First was that he didn't like the person he had become and that i deserve better than him. Then it was he loved him but wasn't sure if he was in love with me and had been feeling this way for a few weeks. Then it was he had been feeling this way since Nov. Whenever I had asked him if he was happier now he always said no. So I suggested we start dating, like actually dates. Before we just hung out, never really did anything. He kept telling me that he wasn't sure he'd think about it and so on. Then today I find out that he's seeing someone else, so I asked him about it. THings started to click, before the break up he had kinda stopped being affectionate towards me, dragged his feet about spending time with me, that sorta stuff. He denied seeing this girl, I asked if he cheated on me, and he still denied it and got really upset that I asked. Get home from class and he's posting about some guy at work trying to get with his girl and what he should do about it. I don't see why he needs to lie to me? This isn't the person I fell in love with...I wish he would just tell me the truth..