Im a senior in highschool, and iveb een to my share of parties, but normally just end up smoking pot and have a good time...ive never really liked just 'hooking up ' with girls(making out, whatever), just because i think it doesnt get anything done, and you leave more horny for not getting laid then ever...i've always been the type of guy to get to know a girl, then make a move, adn enjoy consistant sex/romance/ect... well now im with a girl ive like for a long time, shes been my best friend for hte past 4 years(awh how cute, i know )anyways, she sorta has a reputation for hooking up(just making out) with guys...and for me its always awkward when those guys are mentioned(they are all friends, but i dont like them cause they've just always givin me shit). Me and her are going on 3 months, but for some reason it just bothers me that she was so casual about hooking up with guys she didnt even know(going to clubs ect), (all this hooking up was in the past year before we started going out). I guess what im trying to get at, is should i just forget about it, and realize that i just dont get what she gets outta just kissing random guys? ive had 2 long-ish relationships, where shes never had one, she was virgin when we started going out, and when says when she hooked up with guys it was because, "i figured its just something to have fun, i could go out and think, 'yeah i could make out with some guys tonight'". for me it means a lot more than just casual.