I'll make it short. I'm finally getting over my ex-girlfriend, but not a single girl I meet is even pushing the "potential gf material" button. I'm trying to find another girl I like, but every girl seems just like the last--shallow, dumb, or only interested in the attractive-but-a-huge-asshole type. I'm a junior in college, and I'm a biochemistry major (I'm pre-medicine) and also a psych major, and my school doesn't make it too easy to double and graduate on time w/out overwhelming yourself. I do go out and drink and hit the party scene, but none of the girls I meet are even remotely interesting to me. My problem right now is that I can't determine whether this is because of the girls I'm meeting, or whether it's some relic of my last relationship (am I subconsciously looking only for someone seemingly identical to my ex?) or something like that. Of course, I'm still attracted to many of these girls. But I'm one of the (few, it seems) people around here looking for an actual relationship and not just random, drunken sexual encounters. So, while I'm not sure exactly what my question should be, I'm open to any suggestions/tips. I'm not 21 yet, so I can't go to the bars. The usual searching for girls in my classes (to break the ice by studying together, etc.) is seemingly not an option. My organic chemistry II class next semester will be the same kids, blah. Any suggestions or tips appreciated! you guys here in the Asylum helped me once (even though I initially thought I never was going to get over her) and I'm counting on you guys to pull through for me again!