So I'm trying to pick up a longtime friend off the rebound.

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  1. EscapingJail

    EscapingJail Playing To Win

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    So my friend, lets call her "M" has just broken up with her BF of about half a year. She is adamant about not going back to him.

    How would I go about "picking up" my long time friend "M" for a relationship.

    (I think I'm in the friendzone due to the fact I met her within early this year, when she was already with her ex.)

    Thanks in advance.
     
  2. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    This is a smart idea.
     
  3. EscapingJail

    EscapingJail Playing To Win

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    Ok? :ugh:
     
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    TXLBS New Member

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    If you dont have the balls to use her whole first name, how the fuck can you possibly lay this broad?
     
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    BlackIce72 New Member

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    Don't try. It'll just be frustrating
     
  6. EscapingJail

    EscapingJail Playing To Win

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    What the fuck does that have to do with anything? I didn't want to use her name, get over it.

    I don't want advice from some prick anyways. Usually this is the only place on the forum where people are helpful lol.
     
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    wanna fuck?
     
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    dazmanultra New Member

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    What's the vibe of your current relationship with her?

    Sexual innuendo much?

    Playful touching/fighting/poking?
     
  9. Dreams2Reality

    Dreams2Reality saywhat

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    For one : if she's a friend, wait for the "rebound" to be over.

    Comfort her, be there for her, let her enjoy life a bit. You say she's over her ex, but, does she really want to get into another relationship? The last thing you want to do is get into this, and in the end, devote your time and love for her to say she's not sure.

    Wait til' the "rebound" stage is gone, just be there for her, she'll come around if she wants ya.
     
  10. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    If you really want a proper relationship I advise you not to go after her now. Rebounds generally won't work out well. Come back in a couple of months and try again, but make sure you don't become her shoulder to cry on between now and then. If you do you'll definately become friendzoned and have no end of frustration.

    If it was me and I wanted a proper relationship I'd distance myself from her for a while.
     
  11. EscapingJail

    EscapingJail Playing To Win

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    Both post above me sound good but, how do I make sure that she doesn't go for another guy. Or know when the time is right?
     
  12. HuskiRuski

    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    first of all, don't try now like others said.

    second of all, it probably won't work because you're likely in the friendzone already. your only hope is to be super independent of her now and maybe even back off the friendship a little bit.
     
  13. bigmick

    bigmick The plane takes off OT Supporter

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    Seriously all you can do in this situation.
     
  14. Slid.

    Slid. I'm a guy.

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    You'd have to watch her like a hawk, become a stalker and become a "creepy" friend -- basically you'd be everything that you shouldn't be. Accept the friendzone and move on.
     
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    ahahahhahahahhahah. :bowdown::bowdown::bowdown::bowdown::bowdown:



    if you have any sort of game at all, you can tag that. chances are you, you are just her emotional tampon.... if you want more specific advice please give me more details.
     
  16. jones21

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    well honestly, she'll still be hung up on him for a while even if she does go out with you. Try to come from the fuck buddy angle for a bit until she's fully recooped. It would suck if she dumped you to get back with, lets call him "P"
     
  17. Kirbys Autumn

    Kirbys Autumn Mrs. Kirby McSpic

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    . If you've already been friendzoned, that's all you'll probably ever be. And getting with her on the rebound won't create much of a proper relationship for ya.
     
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    Whats it matter? It shows personality; namely that you're a pussy. Sorry bud, it takes balls to ladder hop on a chick on the rebound.

    And you're not poundin girls baby cavity, you get over it.

    Honest advice; lay off the friendship. Find your nuts. Next time you see her display them, and be clear as day about your intentions. The lay low wait it out approach is for fucking losers.
     
  19. EscapingJail

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    Good advice, I don't need another friend.

    lol I'm using advice from the prick.
    :bowdown:
     
  20. Abomb

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    txlbs isnt a prick, hes just keepin it real
     
  21. EscapingJail

    EscapingJail Playing To Win

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    I know he isn't, it was the stupid name I wrote at the time lol.

    Thanks again, everyone.
     

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