SRS So im in a wierd spot with my SO or rather my recently ex SO

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  1. Eat Shit

    Eat Shit OT Supporter

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    Anyways, hopefully this wont be too long, its somewhat complicated.
    Ive been with this bat shit crazy girl for about 2 years now, and the last year has been break up and back together nonstop. Back together so quick we never even considered being broken up.

    She moved to LA last year after we actually did break up over some big problems. shes a "porn star" unfortunatly :( I hate saying that.
    she hasonly been alllowed to do girls at the most. When we got together she was simply doing NN modeling and over 2 years its progressed into her being in LA doing other bat shit crazy bitches. I was ok with it for a while, as she's for all intensive purposes supported me. She fucked me over real good when we broke up last year. So she pleaded on fixing this shit if i would get back with her at the time. "Fixing" being helping me get back on my feet. Somewhere to live, car, etc...

    So all we do is fight, i cant trust her ass. I know shes cheated on every other BF shes had. She claims shes never cheated on me as im her first love, blah, blah. I found out she moved in with one of her guy friends in LA, She started stripping on top of millions of other shit i probaly dont know about. I learned to ignore it, she claimed to still love me and kept paying for my shit. So who knows.

    Anyways, i told her i was done two days ago. Not sure how I feel about it yet. I definatly dont feel heart broken, i think. I feel relieved, and so many things i cant described, but also i feel lost for some reason. Just her not being in my life is going to be wierd. Her being in my life was a PITA, so i guess its not that big of a deal.

    Im not even sure were im going with this post, maybe more of a rant or maybe just closure.

    She's bi-polar and pulls some real bullshit. She is so fucking stubborn, i think ive turned into her. I was diagnosed bi-polar two months ago, been depressed, etc... she always brings me to her level and i cant stand it.
    I'm trying to split ways with her so i dont get in the habit of using people.
    I feel so bad though. Shes been paying half my rent her as she was supposed to move in with me over the last few months, nows she's ready and i told her she cant. She has done a shit load for me over the last year, but then agian she really needed to after what she did to me.

    Now to think of it, she does love me a shit load to do all that for me even after the way i treat her. Maybe i should learn to Deal with her faults and/or ignore them. No ones perfect, but i dont think im strong enough to ignore her shit and not let myself act like her. She brings out the real shitty side of me.

    anyways, i guess thats it for now. What you guys think>?
    sorry if this is nonsense
     
  2. Durka Durka

    Durka Durka Guest

    don't do drugs, that's all i'm saying.
     
  3. Eat Shit

    Eat Shit OT Supporter

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    wtf, drugs? I dont do drugs? neither does she
     
  4. Durka Durka

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    cool, because the only thing standing between that situation and a murder/suicide is a pill, holy shit.

    i'd have to be on drugs to handle a situation like that. good luck.
     
  5. Eat Shit

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    yea thanks :madfawk:
     
  6. Kirbys Autumn

    Kirbys Autumn Mrs. Kirby McSpic

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    I do agree, that's a lot of shit to put up with. Can you honestly be with someone you don't trust? She may be able to support you financially, but will she be there emotionally? physically? Just think about what you're doing, don't make any quick decisions, this girl's going to move in with you and that's a lot different than just dating and hanging out. Don't you want someone who makes you happy? Strive for someone better, not for someone who bring out the shitty side of you and has you there to pick you up when she can't get what she wants from someone else. Move on.
     
  7. Redneck Shinobi

    Redneck Shinobi Well Jules, the funny thing about my back is that

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    This is gonna be a brutally honest as I can make it. I am going on by assumtions, but your posts reeks of commitment and trusting issues. You didn't even make one solid decision that you stuck by in your post. You blamed her on your mental health, which isn't contagious. You're doing this to yourself, you're stressing yourself out, and you might have just blown away someone who loved you over being selfish. Sure I don't know you or her and making assumptions but that's the picture I see. Every relationships are going to have the little fights, otherwise there will be one massive one eventually. Dams are build to control the flow not block it. Maybe you should have talked to her more about this instead of just jumping ship.

    Of course she cheats, she fucks other girls. You are in a relationship with a porn star, she will cheat but you'll know. If your truly trust her, and give her, her room maybe she will cheat with a guy, maybe she won't. The fucked up part is you'll never ever know until it happens. By being overprotective I can say it'll drive her too another mans arms.


    Look like I said before I don't know you or your ex. You're gonna be the best judge here. Really think about your future and make a decision, please.
     
  8. ///M Pilot

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    run. run like the wind.

    sorry.

    chicks are messed up enough. throw psychological problems into the mix and its a recipe for disaster
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Christ dude, I got tired of reading your post after the 3rd paragraph. You wanna know why????

    Because it's apparent from the beginning that you two have a shitty relationship that isn't meant to last, yet you don't just gain soms self respect and dump her for good and move on.

    Please do yourself a favor and get her out of your life.
     
  10. natestl

    natestl I queef flies.

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    What is her name?
     
  11. DatacomGuy

    DatacomGuy is moving to Canada

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    I gotta agree..
     
  12. DiggityDogg

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    You know... I live my life pretty much drama free because I choose not to get involved nor put up with girls whom bring nothing but drama to the table! Dude, what are you thinking? Smack yourself int he face for me! My lord you KNOW this is not the relationship for you so freaking stop it already. You shouldn't even be thinking about this girl anymore.
     
  13. Schadenfreude1

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    Run like a kenyan on meth in the boston marathon.

    The bitch is nuts. If you stay with her, it's because you don't believe you deserve better.
     
  14. Eat Shit

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    Thanks guys, i know i can deserve better, im over here. I was trying to describe in my post that i dont have feelings for her, the main thing that was just so wierd/ackward was just her not being in my life day to day. But the last week has been so much. Im not heartbroken, i havent thought about her, havent been depressed, nothing...

    So everythings fine now. she's long gone, although she does beg me for a second chance every day and offer to buy more shit.... I got offered a new truck yesterday..... god that/this is what makes it so hard to walk away.
    She is so fucked up
     
  15. DiggityDogg

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    Cut her out. No contact.
     
  16. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    porn star+ serious relationship = destined to fail if you want her to yourself.
     

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