So i went out to a bar for the first time since the breakup

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  1. Mortixer

    Mortixer New Member

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    It was really weird because ive never hit on a girl in the whole bar scene kinda thing. It was alot of fun i went out with a good friend and ended up talking to two different sets of girls the first ones made an excuse and walked away but it was cool ended up talking to another set of girls and what sucks is the one i was talking to said she was gonna go get another drink being new to this i was dumb and didnt go with her and offer to buy her drink for her i kinda thought it was me getting blown off again. Well i guess she came back while i was in the bathroom and was actually digging me says my freind but he didnt tell me this till after i got out of the bathroom and we had to leave because it was 2am so the place was closing. All in all i learned ALOT from the whole experience. I think i didnt do to bad for my first time out. Just hearing a girl was into me kinda boosts my confidence. I know i always wondered when i was in a relationship if any other girls i interacted with even found me remotley interesting or attractive. Not to mention the girl was fairly attractive too.
     
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    The only way you'll learn to get back in the game is to get out there and flex your pipes :coold:
     
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    its weird ive never done the bar scene and its strange how easy it is. I always figured it be akward if you went up to a girl randomly at a bar but it was so fluent and easy. I was pissed i didnt get the number of the girl that was into me but i figure why stress it there were sooo many girls out there if it was that easy the first time it will be just as easy another day
     
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    whamola Tonight....you.

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    sucks your bars close at 2...
     
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    come to buffalo, bars close at 4 lol
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    come to nyc, bars don't close :)
     
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    come to saudi arabia, bars don't exist :wtc:
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    I'd say good job, but I really don't see what good talking to girls at bars does you. :mamoru:
     
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    Confidence boost.

    Gj on your first night out, try to get some ass next time.
     
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    ive been in a relationship for 4 1/2 years and quite frankly i had no clue how to talk to women as a single man. Plus i had no clue if an attractive women would ever even think im attractive. Now that an attractive girl thought i was attractive it made me feel alot bette about myself. Back when i was 16 17 i used to be able to get hot girls all the time but my standards slipped and i slipped and ended up with a few ugly gfs and idk what happened. Its good to know i can still score a hottie
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Oh I'm not knocking flirting with women, believe me. I think it's a good thing. I just think bars isn't the place to do it. :mamoru:
     
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    Then where is?
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Anywhere more reflective of real life.
     
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    well first off all im technically still plus this bar is awesome they host a movie night on wed and tue is peanut butter and jelly night. Its pretty much just a cool place alot of college kids hang out.
     
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    And this being? Do you suggest the park? library? I mean cmon be real bro.

    Stop beating around the bush.
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Statistics show that most people meet their significant others through friends. Pretty much any kind of social environment that isn't focused on alcohol and sex would be fine. A coffee shop, a meet-up group, a rock climbing gym, a tattoo convention, etc. I could go to a bar and flirt with chicks, but that doesn't mean it's indicative of anything real. If I go to a film festival and flirt with a woman I meet there, I'm going to take it much more seriously. If you're just looking for a confidence boost, there are much beter ways to get it. Exercise, for example, will do a thousand times more for you than flirting with an inebriated girl at a bar.
     
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    Good post man. I'm in the same boat. :wavey:
     
  21. saosko

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    cliffs?
     
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    who the fuck said i was looking for my soul mate. I just got out of a 4 1/2 year relationship. Im 22 and i havnt been single my entire adult life. I just wanna get out there and casually date for a while. Plus i still goto things like comic book conventions, concerts, coffee shops and stuff. Its easier to break into talking to girls when theres alcohol as a social lubricant because at this point everyone is a little more relaxed. I will work my way to talking to girls in other places.
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    :rofl: This is exactly my point. It's not real. And I never said you were looking for your soul mate. I made one comment about significant others and you just disregarded everything else I said.
     
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    Studies indicate that the majority of people go to bars. Meaning you can easily meet anyone. The Vag notion that you can't meet quality people at bars needs to die already.
     
  25. saosko

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    You just need to have a trained eye, and pick them wisely.. Meaning not going for the half naked drunk bitch that is making out with every other guy.
     

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