FRK So, I want to fuck a girl

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  1. Faithless

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    And my boyfriend said go for it.

    But I don't know how to find one. I mean... I think that if I go looking for one, it would feel like cheating, but he seems HAPPY that I want this.
     
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    This could be a big can of worms here... What are the details? Are you going to do this solo? With him watching? With him participating? I've done this many, many times, as have many others I am sure, and I bet we could share some advice.
     
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    Well, he said that he wants me to do it and wants to watch.
     
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    you can fuck my gf if i can watch
     
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    oh and regardless, pictures are to be taken and posted
     
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    So how long have you been together, and how old are the two of you? Where is this going? How strong is your relationship? Could you see him with another woman?

    The reason why I ask is because many guys will want to do more than just watch. He is probably going to want to join in, sooner or later. And by later, I mean after you've done it with some woman 2-10 times. I cannot imagine any guy not wanting more.

    The problems start when someone feels left out, and I am going to bet it's going to be him. Depending on his desires, I bet he's going to say something like "Well, you've done it 4 times with some girl, now I want a threesome." Are you ready for that?

    My rules are simple: If someone else is involved sexually, everyone partakes - all at once. The problem is someone gets ignored. Personally I recommend a foursome so everyone has someone to give them pleasure.
     
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    Who are you propositioning ... You live like 5 minutes from me... :noes: :naughty: :mamoru:
     
  8. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    having done it, be SURE you two can communicate openly about what Is about to happen, while things happen and AFTER things happen. Don't do this just as a bandage over a relationship that may not be truly healty. YOu have to be truly into it and truly helathy togetehr before you can bring in a third.
     
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    what do you want to do exactly? i found that when looking for a girl to join my gf and i for a night many didn't want to be done with a dildo or me and just wanted to kiss and eat pussy. lucky we eventually found a girl willing to do everything we wanted
     
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    Faithless, I just saw your other post - sounds like you're experienced at threesomes. If you're just looking for another woman, you go to parties and hang with friends of friends. Sounds like you know the rest... :bigthumb:
     
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    I don't know, but thats what I'm afraid of. I know with him anyway, that he is also addicted to porn and its like, bella donna type shit. So I know it has escalated from regular porn, and that is just a sign of things to come.

    Honestly, we don't have sex very often as it is. When we do, its REALLY good, but I seriously have to beg to get laid.

    I don't see things going anywhere because we are too young (I'm 26 and he is 28) for the sex life to be fizzling.

    I would be furious if he had sex with someone else though.


    Oh, and when I had a threesome years ago, the guy DID get jealous because he thought I was giving her all the attention. He even yanked my hair to pull my head away from her pussy and shoved his dick in my mouth.
     
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    Honestly, I really don't want him involved at all :(

    I love him very much, but our lack of having sex has made me feel meh about us having any sexual contact at all and I want a girl more than ever.
     
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    we do not have a healthy sexual relationship
     
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    To me, it sounds like you are subconsciously using this experience as a tool to initiate a break up. Your relationship sounds unfulfilling, you're horny and he's not keeping up, and you know it'll make things worse.

    Personally, I would say you need to decide what to do about your relationship which is far more difficult than finding a woman, sleeping with her, making him jealous, and waiting for him to dump you.

    If you don't want him involved... well... that says something. Every threesome (or more) I've had with my wife has been a fun experience for everyone. If it's not, then you need to find a partner with whom it is.

    It sounds to me you are looking for a replacement for him. Correct? If so, you need to work on getting out of the relationship and making yourself happy with no strings attached.
     
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    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    Then don't do it. this will not fix it like some magic pill. If you two aren't ready to communicate and fix what's wrong between just the two of you then I don't know how you will handle a third person.
     
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    man that seems so weird to me. but i can tell you this from experience, you will be better off finding someone else. physical contact is 30-50% of a relationship and not being fulfilled in one area has a SIGNIFICANT impact on the rest of your relationship.

    just think, great sex can keep a relationship together...but only for so long. same is true the other way around
     
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    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    And after further reading what you just said above, I think you just need a new partner, male or female. he's not satisfying you and you want something new. Leave this relationship or FIX this problem with him but don't bring someone else into your dramafest
     
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    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    What make syour sexlife with him unhealthy? why is he withholding from you?
     
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    i totally agree. the person being dragging into this, will be the first one, but definitely not the last person that gets hurt with this
     
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    i live right by the van dorn metro....where do you live?
     
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    He has said he is just too tired, but the truth is that he watches a lot of porn and i think he doesnt have anything left after that.
     
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    Yeah, honey, it sounds like this is a losing situation... he's condoned you cheating and getting a new sexual partner. That's his way of telling you to break up with him. This is exactly how I treated my ex-wife in my first marriage - when I did not have the balls to divorce her. Long story short, she had a few girlfriends, I ended up sleeping with a few of them, then the one she really liked fell in love with me, and wanted to have my children :rolleyes: and it was a big mess. She ended up flat out cheating on me until I "caught" her and then she divorced me.

    I could be wrong, of course, but your situation sounds very similar... If I were you, I'd realize you need a better solution to a lack of sex, and that is to find a guy who has a libido for real women and not magazines or TV screens.
     
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    So he wants a real life porn between you and another girl and maybe it'll spice him back up? That's not fair to you that he withholds sex because he's obsesed with whacking off the rest of the time.

    You two need to work that out FIRST. if then you figure, ok maybe we can handle it, then do it. but I think you'll find He won't start back having sex with you like it's all honky dory again.
     
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    Too close... one stop away! :mamoru: You'd better stop flirting with me, I think Faithless needs the attention more than I do. :bigthumb:
     
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    porn is a great thing and a very negative thing.
     

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