Background... I met this girl 2 years ago.. She was working at a corner store, (she teaches full time, and helps her family with thier store on the weekends) Shes 30, im 26. Anyhow, we started dating, she was perfect.. (isnt that always the way?) We dated for quite a while, and then we decided we wanted to get married. Shortly after the engageent, he started shopping for houses.. We got a great deal on a house, and decided to move in together. Almost as soon as we moved in, things started to change. Sex went from a daily occurence, with alot of passion, to a once a week thing, where she didnt seem overly involved. We also became distant. We didnt hang out anymore, we didnt talk as much, basically, we started to grow apart. I tried for the last 9 months to bring ourt relationship back, but whenever i tried to talk to her, she told me I was being difficult, and that I should just "be happy". After several attempts to talk to her, and to get us back on track, I had given up. She told me that she is who she is, and nothing could change that. All I wanted was what I had when we started. That being said, and that being her stand on everything, i called a realator, put my house up for sale, (we had lived there together, we had bought it together, and we had discussed selling it at this point) and decided it was time to move on. After all this had happened, We talked one last time.. We were up until 7:00 am, talking about what had gone wrong, how it had gone wrong, and that we were not compatible. We agreed to divide our assets we had accumulated, (weve lived together in this house for a year) split the profit on the house ($70,000.00, ironically, we had bought the house from a couple who were having marriage problems, and were asking only enough money to pay off the mortgage they owed, we also bought at a time of year most people arent buying. It was sad, we both cried alot, over our failed relationship, however, we both thought it was best. Seemed as tho it was over. The next morning, she wrote me a letter before she left for work, to the effect of, lets try to talk things out and make this work, and she feels as tho she hasnt given our relationship a fair chance. What should I do? My gut tells me to tell her its over, and that the time to talk has passed, seeing as how ive tried to talk to her on many occaisions, but fell on deaf ears. My heart tells me that maybe ill get the woman back that i loved, even though I think I may have fallen into the trap. You know, that thing some girls do to hook a good guy, and then change... So far, im going with option A, but its hard to make the decision.