So a friend of mine gives me two field box tickets for a Wednesday night Pittsburgh Pirates game (in July) at the last minute. I call around looking for somebody to go. Eventually I call my friend Christy, who is free, and off to the game we go. About a year earlier, Christy and I dated, but it didn't work out (drama with the father of her son). Had some decent sex and decided that we'd be better friends. So I take her home after the game and she invites me in to hang out for a little while. One thing leads to another and we are up in her room. While we are having sex, I notice that the condom has broken. I didn't have another and neither did she. She says "keep going, I'm on birth control", so I do. We finish, we say goodbye and I head home. A week or so later I'm talking to her and she says she's getting back together with her ex and the father of their four year old son, Steven. I am very happy for them. None of this clicked with me until two weeks ago when she posted a picture of her pregnant belly on Myspace. The caption said "Me at 27 weeks". So I decided to give her a call to ask what the chance is I might be the father. She thinks its Steven because they spent the weekend together at Steven's family's camp. I told her I wanted to know for sure. She told me she was sure the baby is Steven's and I should drop the subject. She can't give me any concrete proof. Her only reason is her and Steven are finally getting married this summer and she wants to have a real family for their children. So my question is, how should I go about this? I just want to know if the child is mine. She has moved into a house with him (I don't know where it is) and her phone number has been changed. The only way I can contact her is through Myspace (he doesn't have Myspace). Cliffs: Friend is pregnant and it might be mine, but she won't get a paternaty test because it might upset her fiancee (and father of their son) whom she has been wanting to get back together (and marry) so her son can have a normal family.