Just started dating her like a month ago, and she was a virgin...so we've done it without a condom a couple times. Well ive been having digestive problems, painful urination, and red bumps appeared once (all since dating her). I even gave it the spit test (which i found on the net) and it was definetly obvious. Now i know this is curable, but here is my only question: I need to go to the doctor, but i don't want to tell my parents. Im only 18 and still live with them...so is it possible for me to go without my parents having anyway of finding out. (ie i pay for myself, with no bill or record of appointment sent to them) I know my mom would overreact like i am going to die, so telling them is really not a good option. Thoughts?