So I met this girl...

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  1. spidey255

    spidey255 New Member

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    A while ago I posted that I had signed up on match.com. I met this girl who's pretty good looking. We talked on aim a lot and started texting each other and tonight I met her.

    She was totally normal. Really cool, nice girl. Except she talks a little funny because she was born deaf. I feel like such an asshole for being turned off by this. I'm seeing her again next friday. I guess I'll decide then if it really bothers me.

    How would everyone else feel? Am I a jerk for feeling this way?
     
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    Well, I've kind of already decided to give it a chance...because essentially, she is really nice. We have a lot in common also.

    I remember my last girlfriend...the first time we went out I kept thinking about how unattractive I thought she was...then over time I began to think she was hot. So maybe, like that, I'll just overlook it. I noticed a lot when she first started speaking, but then later on I didn't notice it as much.
     
  3. CorpseStreet

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    I have a deaf friend and over time you won't even notice that she speaks funny.
     
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    actually the deaf voice could be kinda hot in bed :naughty:
     
  5. knucks

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    I feel that that is something you will get used to and will stop noticing in the long run..
     
  6. HuskiRuski

    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    pics of hot deaf chick?

    oh, and i wouldn't worry about it. there are much more important things about a girl than her voice.
     
  7. MattThom01

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    eh, if it bothers you, it bothers you.

    People telling you that it's a dumb reason won't necessarily make it stop bothering you.
     
  8. razi

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    most likely, it only bothers you because it's different. if things go well and you really connect with her, you'll get used to it.
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I used to know this guy who was gorgeous, friend of the family. He was such an amazing guy other than looks. Extremely intelligent, caring, etc. He was deaf.

    It was horribly sad because when he met women they'd hawk him like crazy due to his looks, and then he'd open his mouth (he didn't sound :eek3:, it was just noticeable) and they'd blow him off. He read lips so well he can read them from 10 ft away sometimes.

    I would've dated him :mamoru: :dunno:
     
  10. enfiniti

    enfiniti How firm thy friendship ... OHIO!

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    dealbreaker for me
     
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    Her pictures are all really different because she does her hair in different ways and different kinds of clothes (he's in fashion marketing), but i guess this is basically what she looked like last night: [​IMG]
     
  12. F8Lstang

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    she's deaf but she can still talk? whats the problem?
     
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    spidey255 New Member

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    She's not deaf. She was born deaf from water behind her ear drums. She can hear just fine now.
     
  14. nezfotnemom

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    I wish I could be as much of a man about that as you were. Even contemplating another date is pretty standup. I know I am a nice guy and all but that would bother me. Cant knock it til you try it


    Side Note: Seen the show "Weeds"? Megan is deaf and shes the Blowjob queen :snicker:
     
  15. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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  16. spidey255

    spidey255 New Member

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    what other posts are you referring to?
     
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    just have her do hair in a way to cover that massive 5-head and youre all good :bigthumb:
     
  18. enfiniti

    enfiniti How firm thy friendship ... OHIO!

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    fuck it man, shes kinda girl next door cute, I retract my statement.

    whatever
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    on the bright side, i know a deaf guy who is one of the most incredible players i've met.

    dates a gorgeous stripper right now in ny.
     
  20. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Someone in fashion marketing would know not to wear that shirt :bowrofl:

    I kill myself.
     
  21. Dahlia

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    I think she's a cute girl. If it doesn't bother you all that much, give it a try, it can't hurt.
     
  22. Ideotique

    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    she's cute. Wouldn't worry me at all.

    Go for it
     
  23. djshotglass

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    oh well fuck dude you could get used to that... I thought she was still deaf
     
  24. ASoT

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    Do you find it slightly funny when she talks?
     
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    Wouldn't bother me. But I'm used to the way deaf people sound when they talk. My father used to be a sign language interpreter and many deaf people still mouth the words they are signing with sign language.

    I wouldn't judge a girl by the way she sounds.
     

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