Dont really know how to feel. Im sort of stunned its actually over. I havent been happy for awhile and recently just told her that I really didnt want to be in a committed relationship right now. She didnt really listen to me I guess, and she figured we would get back together even though I told her I really wasnt at the right place to be in a relationship right now. I thought that maybe after things calmed down for me, I would give it another shot. Tonight she called me and abruptly expected us to be hanging out. Since she had told me earlier that she also had plans I decided to do other things. We started arguing and she tells me (like she always does) she never said anything about her having plans, other excuses, etc. Anyways she asked me if we were going to get back together and I basically said I didnt want a committed relationship at the moment. I am just enjoying doing what I want right now and I was recently depressed about alot of things that just sort of blew over lately. I really dont know if what I did was actually the right thing to do and if I went about it correctly.