SRS so i jokingly invited a girl over tommorrow and she joking accepted

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  1. KetchupKing

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    We get to discussing what she's doing tommorrow and she jokingly says eating cake all day. I jokingly say I'm doing the same so she should come over. She jokingly agrees.

    what do I do?

    I'm sure the answer is obvious but it's 4am and I'm not the brightest at this.
     
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    If by obvious, you mean bake a cake...then you sir, are correct.
     
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    make dinner. be romantic just for the sake of it. it's valentine's day afterall
     
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    You're friends with her, right? What do you normally do?

    I'm guessing you're not actually involved with her yet, so a full-on romantic thing might not yet be appropriate -- it all depends on your present relationship and how far you can push.

    If you wanna heat things up though, when she comes over, why not bake a cake with her. If she's got a sense of humour, that is. Maybe do that, and while its cooling, skip out to a nice dinner someplace. You'll both have to return afterwards to ice the thing....
     
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    it's not 4 am any longer. I hope that by now you've called her up to ask what time you should expect her over
     
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    do you have the ingrediants? cuz you want to bake a cake.
     
  7. KetchupKing

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    actually yes... i don't know her all that well... met her a week ago and we've spoken twice since :o

    as baking a cake... well I want her to like me, so i probably won't be doing it myself....
     
  8. elixor

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    just make one from a mix -- the cake will still impress her and you won't have to do anything but add an egg and some oil probably.
     
  9. civicmon

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    I'd be tempted to do something stupid like buy a birthday cake from Safeway or Albertsons that says "Happy Birthday Glenn" or something like that :rofl:

    i'd do something funny like that.. be lighthearted.... it's valentine's day and you are friends...
     
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    Yeah, have fun. nothing too serious.
     
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    lol happy bday glen
     
  12. Mugwump

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    Are you gay? This is not meant to be a flame or anything. I've seen threads by you in the past though that hint to homosexuality and just have to ask because this could be why you have no clue what to do with her.
     
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    :confused: that came out of nowhere :wtf: :confused:
    I think you have me confused with someone else??? Apparently, stealing my AV and usertext is surpisingly common :dunno:




    anwyays *update*

    Neither of us got a hold of each other so nothing happened. Anyway, she IMs me online and invites me to coffee, and then to show her around the city. Does this mean she likes me!!??? :x:
    How can I be sure?
    IBnotewithcheckbox


    I really have no idea what I'm doing around women... if they weren't so liberated, I'd still be a virgin :o
     
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    Beezure Go Lightning!! OT Supporter

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    Obviusly she likes you, or is interested in you if SHE invited you out,

    just be yourself, have fun, :bigthumb: :bigthumb:
     
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    this can only end in disaster :o
     
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    if shes the one for you, she'll accept you for who you are. if not, then its ok cause u dont know her too well.
     
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    **update**

    We went out, got really drunk, and took turns going down on each other. :bigthumb:


    BUT... there's a couple of odds things here...
    Although she has no problems sucking on me or stroking me and letting me go down on here, she wouldn't kiss me and wouldn't let me kiss her. She also tells me that she gets sexually aggressive when she's drunk, and also likes to suck off some of her male friends even while sober. I walk her home in the morning, and she says goodbye by patting my shoulders. I go in for the hug and she returns it though. She hasn't called me all day since. I'm feeling really confused on where I stand with her right now. She isn't seeing anyone right now.

    How can I better find out what she wants from me? Am I supposed to call her or something? If neither of us contacts eachother until school starts, do we just pretend nothing happened?
     
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    **update**
    obvious comes out. She just wants to be friends and nothing more. I guess it was a good run while it lasted and that's the end of this thread...
     
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    Odd sequence of events, but at least you know now.

    Certainty is good for the soul. Doubt eats at you.
     
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    I feel so emo... i've barely known her for a few days and I miss her already :hs:
     
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    Sounds like a good friend :bigthumb: :rofl:
     
  22. johan

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    Not really what I'd consider serious girlfriend material, so don't sweat it. Since she likes to service her male friends anyways, you probably haven't really lost anything here.

    Why buy the cow when the milk's free.
     
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    Because you like the cow :hs:
     
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    Get some better taste, then.
     
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    ** update **
    she's pretty much ignoring me now




    who does this girl think she is, coming out of nowhere and wreking my life like that :wtc:
     

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