Boyfriends suck. Maybe I'll learn to love the vag. I know most of you don't know me... but anyway, I'm Mikel. today I found out that my boyfriend of one year cheated on me... with this... this guy messaged me on myspace yesterday, telling me that he had sex with my boyfriend a few months ago... my bf found him on gay.com went to his house, and yeah. I asked my bf about it, and he said he's never seen him before, and that guy was a psycho just trying to get in my pants or whatevs... and not to believe what he says. he took it even further and texted me all day while I was at work,that he loves me soo much and would never do that to me, etc... then today after a whole lot of work, I finally got him to admit it. I know that I'm not the most attractive guy in the world, and my bf constantly reminds me of that... But I don't know why he felt the need to go out on me. If he didn't wanna be with me, he could have said, and I'd have left. I could understand that sometimes people do stupid shit on the spur of the moment, but for him to actually go online, look this guy up, get directions to his house, go over there and have sex with him... I just don't know why someone would do that when they're with someone. and he's done it before, too... the exact same way. meh, sorry for the useless thread... just needed to vent. I'm sad.