So i have come to decided that i am pretty much anti-social

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  1. SovietRussia

    SovietRussia What? You pooped in the refrigerator? OT Supporter

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    because the good looking people i am too worried to screw up saying something stupid.

    and the uggo people, i dont even care to get to know, so i cant practice.

    im so lonely. :wtc:
     
  2. Toda Party

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    Treat them all the same. Hot, ugly, they're all people... just adjust when needed.
     
  3. bandwagon

    bandwagon Copy/Paste

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    Keep making excuses and you have already failed. Put yourself outside of your comfort zone ON PURPOSE.
     
  4. Abomb

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    do u want me to lie, give you a hug and tell you everything will be ok or tell you the truth to stop being a pussy and go out there and practice.
     
  5. huntz0r

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    Just think of the people you don't want as training for the ones you do want.

    Better yet, start talking to people and try to appreciate them as people rather than bodies and faces. Doesn't mean you have to date them if undressing them in your mind makes you wretch.

    I know exactly how you feel though, but all it takes is a basic attitude adjustment.
     
  6. Pringles

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    if you treat everyone the same which they are all the same people. Your putting this shit on the god damn pedistal.
     
  7. MattThom01

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    yoou're not anti social, you're too afraid of getting rejected.

    If you can't take a risk, you will never get anywhere with anyone.
     
  8. turbo_babe

    turbo_babe Guest

    Just talk to girls. Any girl. Any situation. If anything happens, it happens. So if you're at school ask the girl for help if you need it, or just start friendly banter. Same with work. Get hookups through friends. You never know. You just have to meet people.
     
  9. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    ding ding ding

    This is huge. If you aren't willing to step outside your comfort zone, you will not be able to develop the skills that you need.

    Courage is being afraid or hesitant but then doing it anyway.
     
  10. BradUF

    BradUF Guest

    Isnt this comming from the dude who has 3 kids or some bullshit?
     
  11. gkremian

    gkremian New Member

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    Here I am agreeing, again. Get out there, make some contact. Who the fuck cares if it goes nowhere, or if you get rejected? You make mistakes, you learn from mistakes, you make less mistakes, and you figure out what works and what doesn't. The more you get out, the more chances you have. The more chances you have, the more positive experiences you have. Anti-social people are so sad, because all it does is continue the cycle instead of changing it.
     
  12. SovietRussia

    SovietRussia What? You pooped in the refrigerator? OT Supporter

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    i only have 1 kid. :o
     
  13. SovietRussia

    SovietRussia What? You pooped in the refrigerator? OT Supporter

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    plus i have a tendancy to overthink EVERYTHING and i hate it. it seems to get better when im drunk though. lol
     
  14. LordOvenMitt

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    Try not being so superficial.
     
  15. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    I am very anti-social and very picky. Nothing wrong with that, you just have to be patient when it comes to relationships.
     

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