So I have a problem with.... *PLEASE READ! Need suggestions/advices* First of all, please dont laugh. THis has been bothering me for awhile already (like 2 weeks). For some unknown reason, i cant stay erected with doing stuffs with my gf. So this is somewhat happened. We were doing everything fine about 2 weeks ago, going crazy all over each other. Then came a weekend when i drank alot, kinda passed out for the night. Morning came, gf and i went away for the weekend. I was expecting alot of crazy sex since we were staying in a hotel, but i could not get my friend up. Was a little disapointed, but i was also a little sick from the drinking and i think i caught a cold, so i gave myself that reason for not be able to 'perform'. But here's the problem. Ever since that weekend, i havent been able to keep my erection. I would be hard for a while, but as soon as i put it in my gf, i would either go soft, or immediately come. I have no fucking idea what went wrong. Could it be i m nervous about i might turn out to be like that weekend and lose confidence? I mean i get erected from seeing my gf bending down and stuffs, but like i said as soon as i put it in, i go soft...wtf?! Has something like this ever happen of you guys? Any advice what i should do? Please help a fellow OT out.