SRS So I gave in and called her

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  1. HyPE

    HyPE ::OTTC Crew #2839::

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    what the fuck is wrong with me? :wtc:

    ive been ignoring my ex's calls and txt messages for the last 4 days, thinking I was doing pretty good. im trying to just forget about her and move on with my life without having her a part of it.

    then 5 minutes ago, I have a sudden urge to call her...FUCK!!!

    im hating myself right now

    im going out for dinner and then to a club tonight with about 4 chicks :naughty: so maybe it'll take my mind off of everything.

    well, time to start over again...

    please tell me how stupid I am OT!!
     
  2. MSTRMOO

    MSTRMOO Active Member

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    You are very stupid!
     
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    You already know. No need for OT to tell you. Find something you like to do, and then reward yourself everytime you want to call her but don't.

    Your first thought might next be "geezuz how long is that going to last??"
    But in fact, the 'unmanageable pain' phase really doesn't last all that long.
    If you can keep yourself from backsliding, then it goes much faster really.
     
  4. HyPE

    HyPE ::OTTC Crew #2839::

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    thanks man, appreciate it

    guess im just gonna have to suck it up, and start over

    sidenote: her new bf's name is Johan :mamoru:

    :ugh:
     
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    katt_85 OT Supporter

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    Enjoy your time out with the other girls. What you did was silly, but I'm sure you'll get over it. Theres lots of nice looking girls around.
     
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    Wait, what's her name? Maybe I'm the guy schtooping her.
    Naaa, kidding. I'm not in Edmonton.

    Anyways, occupy yourself with some other girls and hang out with your buddies. Most times, the girl isn't having as good a time as your imagination might have you think.

    See, when you jump out of one thing and directly into another, you lose the opportunity for perspective and growth, and you take your baggage and unfinished crap right into the next relationship.

    I know you don't think so right now, but actually, YOU are in the better position, not her.

    Take this time and SAVOUR your mutherfucking FREEDOM man. Truth.
     
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    We've all been there. Most people have to learn the hard way. Don't make the same mistake in the future.
     
  8. HyPE

    HyPE ::OTTC Crew #2839::

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    probably the best thing ive ever read on OT

    thanks dude, I really do appreciate your help. its nice to get an outside perspective on things :)
     
  9. HyPE

    HyPE ::OTTC Crew #2839::

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    ive been in a few serious relationships already, but I cant remember one hurting this much.

    ah well, you're right. I will have to learn from my mistakes. :hs:

    thanks for your input bro
     
  10. HyPE

    HyPE ::OTTC Crew #2839::

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    new years IS comin up, and will be my first one in Edmonton

    ill have to meet up with some chicas :)
     

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